How do i ask this girl out to a dance?

Question

I am afraid of being rejected and am not sure how to turn on my charm and get her to say yes. Please help.

Answer 1

Well, for starters, don't say that your mother said to ask her or send mixed signals, it is a HUGE turnoff. Maybe you should ask your brother for advice as he would have a bit of experience. Try to be nice, but most importantly, be yourself! To be perfectly honest though, I would ask myself if I really want to go with someone who I am stressing over just asking. And also just remember that anyone worth going with wont care how you ask them and read to deep into it like I did. Just be aware of how sensitive and perceptive girls are. Good luck, and I am sure that she will say yes, but if not, I too how rejection feels, and similarly, how good the realizations feel which come after. It is complicated, but I have faith in you.

Edit: And another thing, I agree with the answerer after me, it is not rocket science, so don't make it scripted or complex! I should really take my own advice when I say that you should sometimes listen to your heart more than your head. Hard to digest, but very true. Oh yeah, and it is only like 7:00, so call NOW...I beg of you!

Answer 2

This is a very hard situation that all guys goes through. I mean I could tell you just to be brave and ask her that I would be lying cause I know that I probably won't do that. What you could try is talk to her friend and get some scoop on if she's going with anyone yet and then try to hang out with her more and talk. Communication is a big factor, make her feel comfortable and be yourself. Then if things are going smoothly and when you feel that the time's right....Ask her. I know it's hard but you have to try or else you'd regret it.

Answer 3

This is probably the most awsomest way. It worked for me! Somehow, and this is the hard part, get her to play tennis or something with you. Write "will you go out with me?" or something like that on the tennis ball, purposly hit it really far, make her go get it, and she'll come back all crazy, either screaming yes, or squirting you with pepper spray. When I did that, she said she'll think about it, and my heart was almost broken. Then the next day at school, I found a golf ball in my locker that said yes. Yes!

Answer 4

o.k. I'm a girl and all you have to do is ask her. but don't be weird and don't think about it too much before you ask her . just roll with the punches and if something doesn't work out you guys weren't meant to be. don't write what you are going to say down because you cant plan what she is going to say. just say hi then after a short talk ask what she ids doing sat night.

Answer 5

OK, first of all, whether she rejects you or not: GIRLS LIKE TO BE ASKED OUT! Even if it is by someone they don't like. It is flattering, so just do it. She would probably consider it if you are nice to her and stuff. Just be brave! And remember that if this girl says no, it wasn't meant to be and she probably isn't worth it.

Answer 6

Hi, Is this a school dance or your asking her out on a date. How about I love to dance, How about you? Maybe, we should go dancing together sometime.

Answer 7

You can always ask her online or through a friend, but think to yourself, would you go out with someone who doesn't have the guts to confront you? My advice is to walk proudly up to her, and ask like a gentleman.

Answer 8

Just ask.
If she says yes, then you'll both me super duper happy.
If she says no, go on with your life and go to the dance with friends.


Actually, screw my post, I liked The Halo Man's way, that's so sweet.

Answer 9

You could just say: Are you going with anyone to the dance? if she says no be like Do you want to go with me? ( If she says she is to play it off say ok because I was seein who was going)

Answer 10

HEY,I wa wondering,Do you have a date to the dance?
Girl(if she says no)Would you like to go with me?(do u wan to go with me??


BUT be sure to ask her BEFORE she gets date!!!