I am so clumsy. I fall all the time and wish I wouldnt! Im sick of it! It's so embarrassing. My boyfriend laughs at me all the time cause I fall over my own feet and sometimes the grass. I hate falling and he keeps making fun of me! I didn't think boyfriends were supolse to make fun of their girlfriends! Anyway, the other day in class, Im in 7th grade, I was walking up to the board and I tripped over nothing and hit my nose on the ground. Now I broke it, and it's so embarrasing. When I came home from school, my boyfriend picked me up in his car and he started cracking up so much at the bandage on my nose. How is it that some people can be so graceful and don't even try when people like me try so hard to be graceful but still fall? And how can I improve on my gracefullness?
2006-10-29 10:07:41 · 8 answers · asked by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Physics
You need a new boyfriend. That guy's a jackass.
Secondly, you should check to see if you have some weird medical condition. Falling down and breaking your snout is NOT normal!
P.S. You're in 7'th grade and your boyfriend has a car? What's with that? When I was in 7'th grade I had to visit my girlfriends on my bicycle!
2006-10-29 11:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apart from the primary cause of your problem which I don't know of, I suspect that worrying about it makes it worse. This is often the case with many problems. Why not think about this and if you think I may be right then focus on your good points. You are a human being and therefore you are special and unique and to be valued for who you are. I am sure you have many good points.
Your boyfriend is immature and he is damaging your self confidence. I am sure he does not mean to hurt you but he is. You should never allow anyone to do this to you because over time such conduct will wear you down and cause many other problems in your life. Talk to your boyfriend and make it clear that you require a boyfriend who will support you and love you for who you are and not put you down.
This initiative has to come from you, from inside then you will be demonstrating to yourself and others that you are a valid person who is to be respected. Adopt this attitude and you will start to gain confidence. Good luck.
2006-10-30 12:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heredity (our genes) plays a large part in our inherent sense of balance and coordination. Some people find improvement by enrolling in dancing classes --- where they also teach poise and graceful movements. Your boyfriend is still immature in his actions. Let's hope he will grow up. Sounds to me as if he needs more help than you.
2006-10-29 18:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Scoop81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been checked out for dyspraxia? Its other name is clumsy child syndrome...it may be worth asking about. The treatment is physio to improve spacial awareness and balance and coordination. Dancing is good on all these, as is gymnastics and tramolineing. So get physical :D
2006-10-29 18:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think clumsy people are quite endearing but i understand it can be quite embarrassing.
Have you tried some dance classes? i believe they can make you aware of your body position and movements and dancers have very elegant poise. Also Yoga classes may help/ Just a thought
good luck
2006-10-29 18:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by toietmoi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is related to how secure a person is about themselves. (as long as it is not a physical thing - problem with balance related to the inner ear)
You don't need to be embarassed. People shouldn't laugh at your pain, but you have no control over that. You only have control over yourself.
Tell your boyfriend the next time he makes fun of you it is not acceptable for him to continually make fun of you. If he keeps it up, then break it off.
Learn to laugh at harmless teasing, it makes life a lot more fun. But when people who claim to care about you are teasing you when you ask them not to, then you need to stand up for yourself.
If you really think it's a health matter, then talk to your doctor.
Good luck! :)
2006-10-29 18:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by kikisdragon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well for one it is a big thing to do with genes, the genetic codeing of your body. It is also just a basic skill. Watch how your feet move when you walk and practice balancing on one foot etc. gracefulness is based a lot on balance and awareness.
2006-10-29 18:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try taking a dance class while it maybe awkward at first but soon it may work out for you in the end
2006-10-29 18:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋