Recently, my best friend of 10 years has decided to part ways with me and cut all ties just like that because we were both unhappy but I would NEVER cut a friend out of my life as she did to me and I'm having a really hard time dealing with the realization that for someone to end such a close friendship and not try to fix it was not a true friend in the first place. anyone? wht do you think
2006-10-29 09:21:23 · 8 answers · asked by buddahmusic44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They might have been your friend 10 years ago, but now they are not. This has happened to me, and although sad, they do not deserve your friendship. It will hurt, it will suck, but eventually the pain will go away and you will find a friend worthy of that definition.
2006-10-29 09:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right, if there was not a bigger reason behind it.
You need to let it go and move on. Te years is a long time and it will take a year for sure to get over it. Actually you will still remember ever so often. But hopefully you'll find someone else in the far future. I said far future because you need time to distance yourself from this experience.
2006-10-29 09:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate. I just ended a 17 year friendship. However it was for other reasons ( her constant lying and manipulating of everyone around her are just a few of the reasons). But, you just have to accept her decision. It will be hard and you are going to feel betrayed and hurt for awhile, but hopefully you have other friends to help you get through this difficult time. Best of luck.
2006-10-29 09:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u 2 have been friends 4 10 years well it just shows u that she has been hiding the true her for 10 years how shady can sh be a friend remains a friend u get pisssed but remain friends so suck it up n get over it she was never ur real friend i bet she is talking about u right now behind ur back. likechild i dumped such n so of being my friend n there dum as* keep calling me crying asking me to make up ..............come on 4 get about her but u can call n say ur sorry
2006-10-29 09:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you already found the answer. She wasn't a very good friend in the first place. Maybe she's doin you a favor? NMT
2006-10-29 09:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you grew apart and its been going on for a long time . Time to move on and develope new friendships
2006-10-29 09:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've got it right.
Move on. There are lots of fine folks out and around.
2006-10-29 09:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your other friend was gettign tired of something you had newly started doing, like my friend started becoming manipulative
2006-10-29 09:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by EMlovePINK 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋