Please help me plan out this baby.?
I am planning on getting pregnant in june or july...meaning trying to get pregnant. i have choosen to wait until then because we want to prepare ourself. Saving up for it, looking into the right doctors and all that good stuff. The problem is im bi and my girlfriend and I are thinking about it and seriously considering it but we dont know if we should just do the sperm bank or the having sex way lol.
Theres a lot to consider with both situations. We also need to know if there are any programes that will help us out money wise and help us get started. I heard that there are programs that I am able to apply that can help single moms with housing.
if you know any sites to go to or anything like that please help me out.
please dont respond with negative advice. thanks : )
2006-10-29 09:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yes we are serious. This isnt something that just "sounds cool". I am currently taking classes to get my nar and then get my CNA. i am going to be a live in care provider while i pay my way into med school.
Yes i have thought about the childs needs If we seperate. She already said she'll be there for me and i was pregnant once before and she knew that before she even went out with me. so i know she'll stick around.
Yes i know i have to have the guy sign a paper giving all the rigths over to me. I have friends and fam to help me out but if there is a program out there that helps us get started then that would be the smart way to go rather then doing it all myself and causing a miscarriage again.
2006-10-29 10:36:18 · update #1
If you are going the sex way, I'd want a clean bill of health from the sex person and a document that would not give any legal rights to this person as far as the baby goes. See, that's the problems with these things. So, be careful how you do this. Then, if you can't afford a house how are you going to give this child what it needs? Have you thought about the needs of the child? Do you have support from good friends and family or are you expecting to raise this child in a small bubble? I 'm not being negative, just realistic. Who gets the baby if the relationship goes south? Is that person able to devote her life to this child and not go out seeking another partner and have no place really safe to leave the child? You need to be absolutly sure because whether you like it or not other children will ridicule this child and it will need a strong family life that is supportive and stable to be the rock in it's life. Not another child that's confused and left to figure it out on it's own. So, just be sure oK? OK.
2006-10-29 09:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you and your mate should go to a sperm bank, that way u will not have to deal with a third party. Later on with some bullshit over the baby. Go online to goggle it may have sites to help u in the money dept.
2006-10-29 17:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Loving Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry a sign that says" screw me coz i am bi "
u will get pregnant .. very fast.. lol
2006-10-29 23:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by asi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋