i met my now boyfriend.. n after our first date i just felt i'd totaly fallen for him.. and i was smitten.. still am.. is it possible to fall that quickley ? and be the smitten kitten i am? i mean obviously car'nt tell him... so please help.....
2006-10-29 09:12:38 · 19 answers · asked by cathrin j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thats sooo sweet..maybe it is..hu knows? only u kno hun!! I wish I could find a man that has me feeling like that after the first date. Dont show u like him too much, u dont wanna be gettin hurt missy!!..x
2006-10-29 10:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cat, I use to try and expel any and all thinking of love at first sight. It is illogical, and there are so many other explanations out there for this feeling, ie. lust, need of support etc... Then I ran into my wife. It was unbelievable. I checked everything in my arsenal of explanations, it comes down to ...you can't put mental equations to the heart. Love at first site does exist. I hated being wrong, but, I'm so glad that i was. I'm happy for you! It only gets better from here, and never will it change! 18 years of marriage says so.
2006-10-29 17:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i met my boyfriend last oct we both fell for eachother hard love at first sight soulmates we moved in together less than a month later and it has been great even a whole year later and yes you can trell him and you should so you can find out what he feels and if its worth the time so you dont hurt yourself if the feelings arent the same from him i didnt think it could happen to me but it did good luck if he cares about you and wants a relationship it will work if not well you will find someone who feels the same way about you as you do about them its sure is possible
2006-10-29 17:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by icecoldpolar7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. Of course it's possible. It's happened to you hasn't it? Whilst you may not actually be in love with the guy, clearly you're recognised that there is a spark, and things seem different from other guys you've been with. I expect he fels the same way, and both of you are wondering what on earth is going on. Well, looks like you've found the one for you.
Jolly well done.
2006-10-29 17:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is possible,
I met my ex boyfriend and i too fell in love with him on the first night that we met. I loved him than and i love him now and we have been split up for three months.
I can only answer your question through experience but before it happened to me i did not think it was possible, i always thought that it happened in films or soap operas not to real people like you or me.
But i can honestly say that it is possible because it happened to me
good luck
2006-10-29 17:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been dating him. no way could it have been love at the beginning, but if it's been a while then it most certainly can be love now. 21 years ago i met a boy - ok to look at , nice enough, he asked me for a date, i went, first kiss - bloody hell, explosions, fireworks. after 2 weeks we were talking futures and kids. it just felt right. we could talk about anything. we've been married 17 years now. best choice i ever made. good luck
2006-10-29 17:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by magicalle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's a fact, but that doesn't mean it will last any longer or shorter than a typical relationship. The heat of the moment will fade and faults will begin to appear, perhaps, and your maturity (each others) will be prime in dealing with that. Good luck.
2006-10-29 17:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is possible to fall in love at first sight but this shouldn't be confused with lust. We all have that feeling when we first meet someone - cant get them out of our heads, want to see them all the time etc. etc. give it some time - only you will know!
2006-10-30 10:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Aero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can fall in love at first sight all she can hope for is that he is a quick fall in love person as well and feels the same.
2006-10-29 17:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was smitten with my bf after a couple of dates! weve been going out for 2 and a half years now :)
2006-10-29 17:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋