There are so many divoice cases today in court. Girls and women scrambling for the men, and also scrambling for fathership. Many young women house just too many lazy men, providing them shelter and food, in the fear they might loose them. Why such craving? Can't her just be, taking her time to develop a concrete relationship? Many fatherless kids are own by young women out there. Some having morethan two from different men. Yet the same men go out on just another woman, a recent such victim. It's crazy.
2006-10-29 08:59:26 · 19 answers · asked by Rutherford 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
everything you learn is done when you are young, either consciously or subconsciously.
women 'think' they want a man to take care of and 'rescue' them because that is what is 'taught'....meaning through stories like snow white, Rapunzel, Aladdin, beauty and the beast, and so on.
men are 'taught' at a young age that you can have any woman as long as you show a soft side, even if it is rarely.
2006-10-29 09:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? Your question is quite generic and sexist. Few modern women are "desperate" for a man. Those who are frequently do have some sort of psychological trauma or are raised to believe that their worth is measured by their husband. However, most intelligent and independent women know that they don't need a man and that they can thrive without one.
The opposite argument would be: Why are men so desperate for sex? Why do they feel it's ok to sleep with numerous people and prefer moronic arm trophies to women of substance? Why do they blame women for divorce? Why can't they ever blame themselves? Why will they not take responsibility for the children they father? Why are so many men so violent and have the need to control other lives?
Your English is so poor that it's hard to understand many of your immature accusations, so my reason is as I said, a generic one.
Edit: Asker - thanks for harassing me via "e-mail". All because I offered an opinion. Perhaps the problem you perceive with the women in your life isn't them, it's you. Hard to find a good woman if you are a woman hater and an abusive personality.
2006-10-29 17:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the old day our parents would say if you were not married by 25 years old no man would want you and you would be an old maid. So some women feel if they do have a man they are less than a women, So any kind of man will do as long as they can say they have a man,History repeats a pattern and women think that they need a man to survive but it's all in their minds believe me.
2006-10-29 17:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's only juveniles who scramble for guys. 8-| D'oh! A mature, intellectual woman would never base her life's success on "just getting a man".
If they can survive their teen years without getting pregnant or getting married with the first guy who got in to their pants, they might actually lead a very professionally successful life, then decide if she wants to spend the rest of her life with a man.
How old are you btw? 13? 16? Just wondering. Your question is that of a teen. Take care. And don't worry, some girls outgrow that phase.
2006-10-29 17:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the MEDIA is lending credence to the fallacy and fairy tale that women are nothing without a man. Very little can be found on television or in popular literature (magazines, anyone?) about successful girls and women who have accomplishments and lives in their OWN right.
Until our media-crazed society stops lending cogency to the idiocy of women/girls being nothing without men, the craziness will continue. We can begin, however to help stop this madness by writing all female legislators...senators, congresswomen and even media people like Oprah and Ellen Degeneress to begin a campaign of strong women standing alone!
2006-10-29 17:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by bjorktwin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know what perpetuated such a desperation? romantic entertainment. the same way violent movies influence people, romantic movies make women think, my life will be like theirs, if only i had a man. it's completely nuts, true, and women will acknowledge it, yet they'll still go out scouring for men, whether they're good company or not.
2006-10-29 19:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by deer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all the desperate women in the entire world banded together and decided to move to the United States just so the U.S. will get labeled as the "Desperate Women Nation". It's a hideous conspiracy and it needs to stop.
2006-10-29 18:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Debra D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are a reflection of their childhood. We should avoid judging them and finding them wanting, as they usually are repeating the pattern of bad relationships that they learned watching their parents.
Hopefully as many as possible will recognize the negative patterns of their parents and make a conscious and conscientious effort to have a better relationship than was modeled by their parents.
2006-10-29 17:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it is crazy. Women who support a man just to have a man around have low self-esteem and the man certainly has no respect for her. In the U.S., unmarrieds outnumber marrieds now, which shows women aren't as eager to marry as they once were. And why should they?
2006-10-29 19:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree that there are lots of loser men out there but there are also lots of loser women. i think lots of relationship issues stem from issues with their parents. parents really need to take responsibility for their kids and not do drugs, be abusive, etc. Parents today need to stop the cycle of abuse at their kids. too bad divorce is common but after divorce it is important that the children have a meaning full relationship with both parents given that both are fit
2006-10-29 17:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋