2006-10-29 08:57:02 · 18 answers · asked by Zac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe, he hasent accepted it to himself yet, give him some time
2006-10-29 09:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by laurapazacf2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exploration of one's sexuality doesn't imply homosexuality. It's simply the way one learns who or what they are. It's perfectly normal.
Too, there are those who want so desperately NOT to be gay, that they go beyond the exploration phase, claiming heterosexuality when the reverse is true.
Also, in this exploration phase, one might find themselves bisexual.
In any event, finding out who you are does take a bit of exploration, especially if you're not completely sure about your own sexuality. Pure hetero, Scared of being homosexual; these may lead to an exclusively heterosexual lifestyle, but to define yourself honestly as gay or bi, usually takes a bit of discernment.
2006-10-29 09:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be curious. Although he's made a big leap towards an "alternative lifestyle." In the end, he may not choose that lifestyle. It seems simple enough, but I'm sure he's confused as anyone and he has some serious thinking to do.
2006-10-29 09:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Y knot 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give him time to let what happened sink in and let him get used to the idea. You are probably well excited at the moment but dont push or you could push him away a wee bit further.
Just dont talk about the incident until he brings it up or you both get drunk again. When you do get drunk again let him make the first move. If you dont he will think everytime you are in his company you will want to pounce on him.
2006-10-29 10:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be curious, he might be confused, or he might not be ready to accept that he's bi or gay. Respect how he feels. You can't change where he's at or make him feel something other than what he feel. Express yourself and then listen to others express themselves. Every type of relationship works better that way.
2006-10-29 09:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by Alex62 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called DENIAL! I'm not gay but my girlfriend is...I had that on a t-shirt once. LOL! Maybe he was drunk and that is the only way he can try new things!
2006-10-29 09:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he was seriously "just curious" or he is in complete denial.
OR
he could be considered to be "on the down low," cause I truly believe it is not just for the brothas.
2006-10-29 09:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi_kiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely sounds like he's curious though. Don't push him on this. Let him figure it out for himself but be there as a friend.
2006-10-29 09:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by mesierens 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
were u drunk?
if so...it could just be inhibition released....n ones completely strait or gay (Kinsey scale)
if not...maybe it was a one time fantasy...look at how he looks at you after this. You dotn want to strain relations or anything
he may just be really goodfriends with u
2006-10-29 09:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by RaimundoL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he made out with you last saturday night, then he is GAY. Kind of a Brokeback mountain situation....
2006-10-29 09:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by prettydebutante 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well, why did u guys make out then? r u gay? well, then if u made out, he probably is gay and u r too! face it! u guys are both gay or bi! or u could have just been drunk.....but doubt it....
2006-10-29 10:30:00 · answer #11 · answered by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋