y is it that the ones we love the most we lose first? and if god does exsist y does e put us thru it? im tellin u now he really must hate me!!
2006-10-29 08:55:01 · 20 answers · asked by freakshow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If we lose someone, of course it is a person we love. Many people believe that God does not put us through family death because he is angry or upset, but more to test our faith. I lost my grandma a while ago, and it really hurts, I know, but you have to keep on going. I learned that it's better to remember, not hover over things that are gone. Things will get better - they will! Find something to keep your time or to express yourself. If I didn't have art I don't know what would have happened to me.
2006-10-29 08:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Corinne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..from an islamic point of biew..god tests us in different ways..its hard wen we lose loved ones, but this life isnt permanent and everlasting..continue to do good deeds and the hereafter will be beautiful where u will be reunited with the ones u had lost. This life is a trial, a test for us..for those that believe in one god..this life should be a prison, to appreciate the true pleasures of heaven. I f u have your faith it will help u over your troublesome times inshallah.
2006-10-29 10:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody hates you. You have not lost him, he has only
gone for a while and you will meet up with him later. I
am sorry for your loss, but believing is very difficult when
going through such a hard time. Trust will put you back on
your feet knowing that he is in good hands, and your memory
will keep him close to you and, finally together again. You owe
to him by keeping your everlasting love for him intact.
2006-10-29 09:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lost people i loved too. my grandfather who i loved as my father i lost at the age of 12 and my father who left when i was 17 my cousin who was like my brother i miss him till this day he died from cancer. he was only 20. life is hard no one said it would be easy but we gotta learn that we shouldn't take anyone anyone for granted and always show those we love that we care because tomorrow isn't promised. don't ask god actually we should look foward to being with them someday cause honestly they are in better place then we are. i hope that was a little of the answer you were looking for.
2006-10-29 09:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by JR21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we lost a son through medical problems a sister 6 weeks later ,father 5 years later mother 8 years after that our question was why us and the answer is why not us yes we were broken hearted and gutted we blamed god but he did not do this to our family life did it easy to blame god . no we are not religious
just realistic so you are not on your own talk about them it helps all in the last 10 years
2006-10-29 09:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must hate me too x lol i lost me gramps at 9 (he was 50) mum at 12 (she was 36) nan at 16 (she was 59) dad at 21 (he was 49)1st husband at 22 (he was 24) i also lost one of my son's at 23 (he was 5) i keep thinking why me but hey these things r sent to try us and make us a better person in the long run! try and stay strong x if u ever want to chat mail me x all the best x
2006-10-29 09:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by kj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no god that is watching you and the only thing we can do is remember and cherish the time we have with the ones we love so much. no worrying about the little stupid things, just loving and always making sure the ones we love know just how much we love them. The only thing that is certain in life is death.
2006-10-29 08:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is a result of Sin entering the world. It is going to happen to us all at some point and there is a God and he LOVES YOU thats why he sent His Son Jesus to die for you if you have any more questions email me
2006-10-29 08:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by The_Truth_Finder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"what does not kill you , makes you stronger. I believe God uses the already 'good' people in our lives to increase our characters and make the rest of us better people...(only the good die young???) I don't know this for sure , but I'm pretty sure I have a shot at living a long time.( unfortunately for those close to me).
2006-10-29 09:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey life is nothing but loss.we all have to keep going even if we hit a bump in the road.But don't dwell on it keep looking forward and stop looking through the rear view mirror.
2006-10-29 09:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋