I need help figuring out whats wrong with my friend. She can act really nice one minute and then turn into a total jerk the next. We went out and she met another friend of mine she had never met, and she was completely rude to her and rolled her eyes at her when she wasnt looking. She had heard stories about my other frined (that she was sarcastic and had an attitude, which is not true and I have told her) but she was mean to her before she even gave her a chance. Could she be bipolar? I just couldnt believe the rudeness. We were at a party to have a good time and my friend completely destroyed it. This is not the 1st time this has happened. I never know how she will be the next day. Advice ???
2006-10-29 08:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by Sstar979 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK listen to me carefully ... i know this probably isn't what you want to hear but this friend isn't a friend, if you don't be careful you wont have any friends left thanks to her !! You have 2 choices 1) You need to sit her down and calmly and tell exactly what you said up above. ( that she is being rude, and that your being stuck in the middle ec .. ) Only instead say this girl ( whatever her name is ) thinks you don't like her, kind of let her know what people are thinking about her, but you don't want to get into a fight with her so say it nicely ( well as possible ) !! And if that doesent work go to number 2) I know it sounds terrible but you have to ditch her, well ditch is a harsh word, maybe just maybe not spend as much time with her, make new friends, because this girl isn't a nice friend, and is one that will get you in trouble !! Bye !!
2006-10-29 09:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty-princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is a little jealousy there on her part? She may be insecure and possibly feel you might want to hang out with other people instead of her. I have friends like that who just really ruin it for the rest of us.
You should try to tell her how you feel, maybe she'll open up and let you know whats going on with her. Hope it all works out.
2006-10-29 16:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by aisha3821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may very well be bi-polar. or she may just need an attitude adjustment. what you need to do is tell her, how she embarrassed you, and spoiled the party. Ask her what is wrong with you? And also say, that my friend did not do anything to you, and you do not know why she treated her that way! If she does not change, then you may have to distance yourself from her!
2006-10-29 16:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds jealous, like she doesn't want you to have any other friends but her. I would talk to her about it. Don't quit being her friend over something like that. Just TALK to her and try to figure things out and if it doesn't work out right now take some time off and let her be, and see if things get better over time, and THEN think about not being her friend. but don't do that first. talk it out and all.
2006-10-29 16:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥#1 Miley Cyrus Fan♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,just believes what she has heard about your other friend more than she believes you.Just try not to hang out with both of them at the same time until she gets her facts straight.Or pulls her head out of her anus.But by all means tell her how all of this makes you feel.
2006-10-29 16:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has a problem with jealousy and pre judging other people. Either she knocks that off or find another friend.
2006-10-29 16:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YOU ASKED HER WHY SHE DOES THIS. DOESN'T SOUND LIKE A FRIEND TO ME. I THINK I'D GIVE HER SOME SPACE.
2006-10-29 16:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋