ok i like this guy and i am reallly reallly shy......he knows i'm alive we say hi to each other when we pass eachother in the hall. i want to know how too get him to notice me more? and how should tell him i like him? don't say write a letter.....please been there done that...........i am uasually out going and hyper....but when i get close to him i turn really shy and not tlakitive....Help What should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 07:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by ilovewilliamsledd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you've gotta talk to him. what's he do? is he a sports player? is he on any committees? talk to him about some of it. he'll be able to tell u like him.
2006-10-29 07:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation as you at one point in my life.The only difference is the guy that i really liked didn't go to school with me. He was a friend of mine's husband's son. Anywayz, he noticed me to and we talked everytime we seen each other.Well I was quiet and shy when i was around him.Well he got with another girl and left the state and i didn't see him or talk to him for a little over five years.well one day his dad told me that he talked to him again so i decided to take the step that i should have taken a long time ago.i went to his house and we started talkin and next thing i know we are together.Finally!! I know that you are still young but now we are talkin about getting married.I guess what i'm trying to say is to. Not worry about what might happen or what he might say.just tell him what you gotta say and let it go from there.
2006-10-29 16:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to talk to him and hang out with him more... Are any of your friends good friends with them.. If u trust this friend tell that friend that u think u kinda like this guy and maybe get ur friend to casually ask him if he likes u, and then casually hint that u like him... If none of ur friends know him i don't know... if he has a job hang out there sometimes with other friends, just find a way to spend a little time around him
2006-10-29 16:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. only two things can happen he will say yes or no. knowing for sure will help you a lot more than stressing out forever. I know how hard it is to do it but eventually as you get older you learn to just do things becase thats the only way things get done
2006-10-29 16:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by odoyal4912 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to basically get over it and just go up and talk to him. as a guy, id say there is nothing to worry about especially since you guys say hi and stuff when you see each other. he is probably waiting for you to do that anyways.
2006-10-29 15:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by RichUnclePennybags 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is much easier to talk to somebody you are shy with in
a group. Try to see him in a group and then think of him as just one of your other friends and talk to him like you would one of your other friends. Just be yourself
2006-10-29 16:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have written a letter then I would say he is just not interested in you. remember it takes two to make a relationship, not just you and your wish list
2006-10-29 16:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
email him
instant msg
any of that stuff, if he says hi he obviously wants to be at least friends if not date u just be urself
2006-10-29 15:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by William H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him straight up. Going around in circles won't get you anywhere.
2006-10-29 15:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Wanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it i really are in love with him, u would talk to him and don't be shy, he isn't the only man out there
2006-10-29 15:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋