I have been divorced 3 years. I have had no sexual relations for quite a while. My good friend who is bisexual male. He told me I am lovely and wants to make love to me. I turned him down. He is 35, I'm 44, he will not spealk to me. What should I do?
2006-10-29 07:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by debraj622000 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
his loss...if sex is more important to him than your friendship, he was not a real friend in the first place.
2006-10-29 07:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you attracted to him? If so, what's the big deal. If not, then explain that to him. Either way, it's your choice and his response is his to own.
What you might want to consider ... were a jerk in the way you turned him down, could his feelings deeper than you may think, was he just looking to get laid, is he hopelessly immature, is he a messed up manipulator, etc?
2006-10-29 07:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing...you have every right to say no...and if he can't understand that then I question how much of a friend he really was (is).
2006-10-29 07:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate sulky men it's so unattractive, try talk to him. He probably feels rejected and embarrased. Why did you turn him down?
2006-10-29 07:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by LadyDeville 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For someone that calls himself "bi", he sure is acting like a drama queen!
2006-10-29 07:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go on without him. Like any other relationship, he should respect your answer which was, "NO."
You did nothing wrong.
2006-10-29 07:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say get new friends,
2006-10-29 18:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋