I want another baby but theres a catch?!!?
Please dont respond if your going to say i' horrible or something to that sort i need real advise or ideas.
I have been married for 8 years my husband and i have 2 children together.
He is 30 and i'm 29 i really want to have another baby he doesnt as i suffered postnatal depression with both of my other 2 children, but feel really good this time hense the planning this time to get pregnant
anyway, I need some ideas on how to trick him into giving up his bad boys when i'm ovulating as he has mapped out my cycle so he wont mess up as it where.
All ideas would be good cause i know once i was to get pregnant he might be mad a first but he would come round and i know he would love the baby.
So any ideas on how to trick him please let me know.
2006-10-29 07:21:47 · 16 answers · asked by La diva R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take it to the next level to try and get him seduced. men can can only take so much teasing before they give in. If that doesnt work getting him drunk might be a different approach but it might work.
2006-10-29 07:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by BIG D 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Focus on the kids you already have, for everyone's good.
If you trick him into getting pregnant and come up with an aggravated post partum depression, you will impose on him, and your children, out of a selfish wish.
Get a puppy... Why do you think I have 8 geckos, 2 turtles, 2 cats, one bird, 2 chickens, 1 dog, 1 snake... but NO MORE BABIES?
2006-10-29 07:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tricking him into doing something he doesn't want to do isn't going to help you. He isn't going to respect you for doing that and eventually end up resenting you for doing this to him as well. Secondly, why would you want to have a child with someone that doesn't want another baby? He might just need a little more time, I don't think you are horrible, but I do think you need to seriously sit down and discuss this one on one and forge some kind of compromise.
2006-10-29 07:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms because your toddler is getting older does not recommend you received't nonetheless be a mom. Why do not you concentration on the youngster you've and wait a short even as till the both absolutely one of you're particular you want yet another baby.
2016-12-05 08:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by fiddler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect your husbands feelings on this one because if he has gone to the trouble of figuring out your cycle then he really doesn't want another child. Perhaps he feels like he can't afford another child at this time. Maybe he just wants to make sure he can afford to send the two you have to college and and help them get ahead in the world.
2006-10-29 07:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by sweetkooky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, it's not just your decision. If you are going to have another baby then it should be a joint decision. You already have two children and like you said, you did suffer. Although you now feel great about it, your partner is happy with his family as it is, and you should be too. Try talking to him about how you really feel and how much it hurts you wanting another child, but don't trick him.
2006-10-29 07:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i no being a mother is the most wonderfull thing .....but its a biggest responcibilty too my friend....if you wann be pregnent again just because in first 2 times you were in depration and you feel this time good......you have to think twise about the comming baby and the kids you allready have......will you be able to do justis to all of them .....did in your erleyer 2 pregnency you did justis to yourself.....those 9 months are amaging but your mood changes so much your body changes so much....will you will be ready to look after yourself, your 2 kids and your hubby and your house and his family.......being pregnent is eazi but after that everthing is hard...i feel your husband is very sencible he understands that that was a tuff time for you........... think just because you want to prove your self that you will be grate this time.its not fare..........take good care of your 2 beautiful kids give them all the love in the whole wide world.....you love them take care of them this is the most important thing to them........i no a baby is beautiful but when you will notis all little and big things your kids do in all there agees........it will make a big diffrence...........other then that its your life.........you getting pregnent is not hard maybe strat from showing him that you can handel everything in your day to day life and more ...like you are a supper women...........and after all this you still feel you have power to do things ..........then he will go for it.......but remember once you will be pregnent then you cant turn back and cant say again that i will be nice with my 4th pregnency............................life is small please keep it real.....
take care
2006-10-29 07:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by preetijas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trick him? Jeez wouldnt like to be the baby! Who was tricked into coming into the world!!
Talk to him, tell him how much you want another baby, if he still doesnt he's a loser.
2006-10-29 07:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give Drumsticks 2 him @ lunch and dinner and be sexy 2 him 2 get him 2 the mood.
2006-10-29 10:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it shows how little respect you have for him that you would even seriously consider this....what if you were the one saying no and he poked holes in a condem and knocked up again...you would be furios...why make hime responsible for a life long commitment if he does not want that...you sound very immautre to me.
2006-10-29 07:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by deidra3970 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course!children are cute ..but to bring children into this horrible wrlod?well at least thats my opinion.
2006-10-29 14:21:01 · answer #11 · answered by neina khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋