if you and your best friend go out?? would you care what people think??? because me and my bf are thinking of going out and we both think the same and really care what people say and think about us...........should we care or not at all???
2006-10-29 07:21:16 · 19 answers · asked by bekka 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my bf is a guy......
2006-10-29 07:24:56 · update #1
you should not care about what others say
2006-10-29 07:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only in that people love to gossip, and once a story about two people gets started, it keeps getting more and more scandalous. You then find that people either neglect you because they think you're a tramp, or you will start having to explain all too often that the rumors people have been hearing are untrue. Along with that comes the fact that many people may choose not to believe you, so be ready to live with what may result from how convincing they can be to others.
2006-10-29 15:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what bad could people say? You two are best friends, and ready for something more. You like each other so why not? Or are you saying that you two are gay? I am not really sure, I can't tell you didn't give enough dets. But, to me, if you guys are worried about what others think, keep it secret. That's all.
2006-10-29 15:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all.. It's funny because a lot of young kids don't care what their parents think, and don't want to be told what to do.. So why let your friends tell you what to do or care about what they think? Do what makes you happy! If you like each other, that's all that matters!
2006-10-29 15:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So..............who's your best friend? A guy or a gal? Now, I think that if you are on here asking if it's OK that you have some serious reservations about it. Otherwise, you wouldn't care so much.
Now, personally, I think live your life in a way that makes you happy. As long as you are a good person, care about mankind, are polite and don't commit a crime.........live your life as you see fit.
2006-10-29 15:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, is your best friend a girl?? lol Anyway- it shouldn't matter what the other people think- who you go out with should be your decision! Good Luck!
2006-10-29 15:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by AB &♥; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have bin down that path b4.. its not interesting at all! believe me.
after a while u get tired of /outgrow what people tink.
its exactly what pple tink.. and the real problem is that u r not sure what u tink! that is the problem.. or mayb u r not 100% comfortable with the arrangement..mayb there is sometin wrong.
sometimes its hard not to tink what pple tink.
but if u both r certian of what u want.. and u know its right...then
goodluck!
2006-10-29 15:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have no care in the world because i know i want to be with him. if you are worried about what people say then am sorry because people always have something to say.
2006-10-29 15:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what makes you feel good, and not care what others think.
Think of it this way, will it really matter in a year? or even a month?
2006-10-29 15:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by GaelicMel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't care of what people think as long as you guys are happy
2006-10-29 15:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by La LoCa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL that depends... is it a guy or gurl? *cough* sorry, i shouldnt have said that, but anyways... if it really means that mcuh to u!! why should u even care wut ppl think? but yeah, if it is really that big u could always keep it down low so it doesn't get out of hand!
2006-10-29 15:25:47 · answer #11 · answered by "dear mich" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋