I want another baby but theres a catch?!!?

Question

Please dont respond if your going to say i' horrible or something to that sort i need real advise or ideas.
I have been married for 8 years my husband and i have 2 children together.
He is 30 and i'm 29 i really want to have another baby he doesnt as i suffered postnatal depression with both of my other 2 children, but feel really good this time hense the planning this time to get pregnant
anyway, I need some ideas on how to trick him into giving up his bad boys when i'm ovulating as he has mapped out my cycle so he wont mess up as it where.
All ideas would be good cause i know once i was to get pregnant he might be mad a first but he would come round and i know he would love the baby.
So any ideas on how to trick him please let me know.

Answer 1

I kind of have the some problem. I like the answer that says get him drunk. I would say really drunk. Every time I am ovulating it's in the middle of the week so that would work. We have talked about having more but he says we just can't afford it. I would sit and have a talk. Maybe both of you should go see your doctor at the same time and talk about it.

Answer 2

Try sitting your husband down and try telling him how important it is for you to have another baby.Let him know that you are prepared to seek help if you have the same problems as last time. ALWAYS be truthful with your husband, you would want the same from him. A lot of people might disagree with me but I believe that you can't be a good parent without being a good spouse first, your children deserve that from the both of you. What ever you decide, good luck.

Answer 3

so just by the way you start your question you know that tricking your husband is wrong,im not trying to be "horrible" here but you know that its dishonest and selfish. what you need to do is convince him,obviously this is important enough for you to risk post-partum...again,so instead of taking the easy and wrong way to get what you want,do some research talk to many different kinds of health practitioners ie;regular dr. homeopathic practitioners,mid-wifes,etc; do some research on post-partum and ways to lessen it,dietary habits you can change during your pregnancy that will affect you positively after the birth and so forth,but deception is not the answer,even if you do trick him and get what you want and yes he probably will love the kid,but if he finds out you tricked him decieved him,youve broken a trust and that takes a long time to fix and heal from.so try to think outside your needs and look at the larger picture,and get and end to your means in a positive way.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with wanting to get pregnant doing it without him knowing on the other hand probably isn't such a good idea. Just keep talking to him and try to reassure him that you feel better this time and if it turns out that you get post partum depression again then you will just get the help that you need. I'm sure he will come around and change his mind eventually, good luck.

Answer 5

I don't judge you since I'm in the same position but don't want to trick my husband. However, if I were to do it, I'd get him to use a condom and then use the contents appropriately when done. This does work as there was a case a couple of years ago in which a woman did this to her boyfriend without his knowledge & got pregnant. He sued her. Basically you just need to collect his sperm, which you could do by giving him other kinds of service (oral, manual). As for the PPD, don't short yourself by just living with it. Get on meds if it happens. Good luck!

Answer 6

You're wanting advice on how to be totally untrustworthy? Your husband has the right not to father more children. By wanting to "trick" him you are saying that you don't care about your marriage and that you are willing to put it as well as the security of your other children in jeapoardy in order to have another baby. If I were him I'd run as fast and as far away from you as I could get and take my two children with me. You're dishonest and untrustworthy as well as being extremely selfish.

Answer 7

well i think u should really talk to him about it .. and explain to him u want to plain it so it eill give u less stress then befor b/c u did't know it was going on befor this time u will be ready for it ..but ...


this is really bad i know but my cuz did this to her hubby b/c he was scared of haveing another baby b/c alot of things happend with her first kid.. but aney ways .. what she did was take the pill/patch and swich it up to mess her whole cycle up .. so say it was patch,patch,patch,patch,patch,off-- she would swich it so her cycle would be off ... so on her off ~ she did not start her patch till the next sunday or the next so then it would mess everything up this took about 1 or 2 m'th maybe even more.. and that why she cycle is all messed up and he has no idea when it is and if he says why are u changing it so much just say u are getting sick of the patch and u got a different kind or pill or whatever u are tacking...

or u can even tell him u are taking one of them and not and when he says something say they make u sick..

Answer 8

I really don't think it's a good idea to "trick" your husband into having another baby. If he doesn't want another child and you get pregnant, he may have alot of resentment for you later on.

Answer 9

i know its bad but im in the same place as far as try to trick my husband into having a baby. what do yall do to stop pregnancies do you use condoms cuz what i did for awhile before he caught on was convince him that we didnt need condoms that just once wouldnt hurt and he would say ok and not use one other then that i dont know what to tell you.

Answer 10

poke holes in his condoms if you guys use them. or if all else fails. . .just convince him you want another child. .it might take him a while to come around and maybe by the time he comes around, hell want one too. try taking to your doctor about it on what you can take before the post partum depression kicks in. . .but i would just sit down and talk to your husband and let him know how much another baby means to you. . . CRY. . . CRYING ALWAYS WORKS. . LOL
good luck though!!! i hope your husband comes around!!