xgf raised in divorce home (ie parents took 10 long years to go thru divorce. xgf knows all the games, especially 'you cheated' chant. Won't allow my son any visitation--she says he can visit, but they never happen. Tells me I have no rights a grandparent, claims I was rude (I disagreed with her version), so we haven't seen gndson in 2 years.
My son is poor and hasn't gone thru family court yet. Child support takes much of his income.
2006-10-29 07:08:02 · 9 answers · asked by realjustice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a lawyer, and demand your rights! Take her to court. Let the courts decide what rights you have.....not HER!
2006-10-29 07:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to have to go through Family Court no way around that. there is no easy answer to this.
I don't know what happened in their relationship that broke them apart too begin with so I can't say how she is feeling.
BUT if she is playing games she will pay in front of the judge. Because your son is paying child support she has no legal right to keep the child from him. However, since he has not gone to court he doesn't have any back up from the courts.
This issue is so sad for all concerned but more sad for the child who is not being given a chance to be with Grandma or Dad..
Best wishes.
2006-10-29 15:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by newtooocala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been throught that, so u tell the ***** to back away. As the father of the son, he has rights. If the court said he couldnt see his son, for being unstable, then u cant. But im guessin' he is stable so u can tell the xgf so back off... You have rights to see your grandchild...the xgf has no right to see him or have him...If the father pays child support, he is payin' for him to get by and so as long as he is payin' he can see his son when ever he wants... i know all the games too, she thinks she is sly but she is a ***** and you have rights to your grandson, he is half your blood by the way. the xgf sounds like a retard for doing that.
2006-10-29 15:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right I'm going throw the same thing about the ex wife my ex daughter in-law this girl would not no the truth if it came up and slapped her, And there is lawyers out for grandparent rights down side is they cost alot But there is groups out there it does seem that we love so much and have so little rights Hang in there your grandson is worth every bit of it....
2006-10-29 15:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by helen l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only choice you have is too a{prove her an unfit mother b{take her to court and get the rights that you can get,or option C{kiss her *** and beg, call dhs if she is an unfit parent
2006-10-29 15:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go to court and file for child custody, if he pays child support he has rights to see child
2006-10-29 15:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs legal visitation rights granted and documented. Maybe you can pay for his attorney.
2006-10-29 15:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have to take her to court, because you as a grandmother have a right to see your grandchild
2006-10-29 15:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by donttalkjustplay05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to court for grandparents rights.
2006-10-29 15:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋