If you could life your life over again but could choose your sexuality. Would you choose to be gay again???
2006-10-29 06:51:51 · 15 answers · asked by cartoonhero55 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The only thing I would change about being gay is coming out earlier than I did. I like being gay and can't imagine me as anything but gay.
2006-10-29 07:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were to live your life over, and that included having a memory of your previous life experiences, which were as a gay person, and you recall enjoying the activity that goes with it, even if there was some social stigma attached, and you recalled having no interest in being a so-called straight, then why would you choose anything else?
But if you were born without a memory of such experiences, and had to choose based on nothing but instincts, and you had the same instincts as before, you would choose gay.
If you were to choose based solely on observations of others, you would likely choose what the majority appeared to enjoy.
There is of course the possibility that you might choose based strictly on observing that a being with a schlong could do more things with you and to you than a person without one.
But otherwise this is not the type of hypothetical question that can be answered with any certainty, or that illustrates any particular point.
I also think it's a copout to say you'd chose being bisexual, as that wasn't the question. However, I have to concede it's a rather good answer.
2006-10-29 15:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I've had the good fortune to lead a very diverse and interesting life since I came out of the closet. Besides, I just can't picture myself in the suburbs with a wife and 2.3 kiddies, living a boring and mundane life. I wouldn't change anything!
2006-10-29 15:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by mesierens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could choose anything, I'd choose for all people to be bi-sexual and accepting of all forms of adult consensual love as the completely normal way of humanity!
To answer your question, I'd choose to be me... but I wouldn't mind being a little taller :).
2006-10-29 15:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Alex62 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to change myself, cause I love who I am, and I think that being gay has influenced a lot of who I am. But, If I could still be me, and be straight next time? Hellz yeah! I'm an actor!
2006-10-29 15:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose love and that comes in many forms. I just would not like to be a screaming camp queen
Probably Bi and meet decent people that are clean and careful.
2006-10-29 18:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Shadow Wolf on this one. The best choice would be choosing to be bisexual. After all, love is love.
2006-10-29 15:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by puhpaul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not. Except if I were to live my life over, I'll just deal with it and do the things I would do and be much happier.
2006-10-29 14:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not choose to be other than I am.
I believe we all have a reason or purpose behind the situations in our lives, things we should learn, things we need to do for ourselves or others. I won't deny those lessons to please others or myself.
2006-10-29 14:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm a better person this way because it has made me more understanding, open minded and accepting of other people.
2006-10-30 23:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋