If i go out with this girl do i have to tell her that im bi im liking a girl and a bo but i think i like the boy more but im probably gonna go out with the girl but is it reallllllllllllllllllllllly wrong to hide my secret from her or do i have to telll what do you think i wont cheat with a guy so what do you guys think.
2006-10-29 06:40:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well do you want her to like you for who you are ....or who you're pretending to be?
2006-10-29 06:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 15, I don't think that you going out with the girl will be a life long commitment, so, No I don't think she needs to know. That you are bi doesn't make you a cheat. If you plan a longer and serious relation you could always tell a bit later when you know she's serious too.
2006-10-29 06:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by --- 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, BE YOU ! Of course you should tell her, she'll appreciate your honesty(if she keeps it real) and she'll stop worrying that your running around with some other chick. Believe me , it's alot easier to know your boyfriend is with a guy then a girl. WHY? My reasoning is that she can't compete against a guy, there is something that you like in each of them that you won't find in the other. So therefore, it's your choose, your decision, if a girl can't handle that upfront, then there's no reason to even be with her. REMEMBER, BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST ! If someone can't accept you for who you are, tell them to kick rocks ! Good Luck !
2006-10-29 07:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by thatdarnsheila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell the girl and the guy. roll like this man your life will be a lot simpler if you just start being up front with everybody let people you are going out with know hey you like the opposite sex and the same sex. also that you have no intention to be monogamous right now with anybody.
2006-10-29 06:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Gandalf_the_Grey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no question about it!!! tell her. regardless of the gender of whoever you cheat with she should know. besides don't you think she has the right to know about your sexual orientation, even if you are only seeing her at the moment???!!! how would you feel if it was you. secrets like that are not kept in the dark for long. she would feel more decieved and hurt if she finds out any other way than you telling her.
She deserves it, tell her!!!
2006-10-29 06:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shood tell her so that she wont wonderif you are cheating. B honest to her and make sure she knows that you like her. If you don't tell her that you she'll probably think your just strait GAY!!! i know that you don't want that because you wood have never thought about her if you were! Just be Honest and truthful to her- she'll appreciate it (maybe in most cases they will!)!
2006-10-29 11:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by princess_kia93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, It still is not genetics! Even if you do report me. Can't handle the truth? Have to go and tell?
2006-10-29 08:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by tbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no separate standards for bi-sexual relationships. You know the right thing to do is to tell her.... Tell her.
2006-10-29 06:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she deserves to know or otherwise you would be starting a relationship with her based on lies
2006-10-29 06:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable enough to tell her then do so, if you think it will mess up your relationship with her then keep it to yourself.
2006-10-29 06:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't matter to her if you're bi or not... but assure her that you're not a player... my ex actually thought it was kind of kinky that I like girls as well as guys...so she might take it like he did when I told him.
2006-10-29 06:44:24 · answer #11 · answered by cattys_cats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋