I have this close guy friend I've never been with or dated..NOTHING!...anyway We've kept in touch over the past 8 years and now I'm engaged. My fiance and I are very trusting however we like simplicity so we both don't really have friends of the opposite sex to avoid problems and drama...It worked great until now...He really wants me to cut off this close guy frind of mine....his excuse is that he doesn't have women friends that call him..blahblahblah...my fiance has met him and plus he lives in Utah???so what are ur thoughts, what is a good argument for y i should be able to remain friends with this guy friend even though he doesn't havent any girl friends.....this seems kind of childish when i read this however I swear our method of not having girl/guy friends works well...??? help.
2006-10-29 06:32:55 · 15 answers · asked by AUDREY H 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks everyone who answers....
2006-10-29 06:41:49 · update #1
It's real simple. If you want to marry this man, then cut off the friendship. It's not even a close call.
2006-10-29 06:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you 2 trust each other you should b able 2 b friends with anyone including members of the opposite sex....
2006-10-29 14:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by curious_girl_2_play 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it more complicated than it is. Go with what works. You're doing the one thing that you two wanted to avoid, and that's causing drama. It's sad that you have to cut off a friendship, but in marriage there is sacrifice.
2006-10-29 14:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are engaged and your guy does not feel comfortable with that friend of yours.It is best in the interest of you both to cut off that relationship.
2006-10-29 14:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by stewart j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of "you" being friends with him. It's important at this point for "Both" of you to be friends with him if you want to continue the friendship. Once you are a couple it is important to have couple friends and those that are singles it's important that you are both friends with them so there is no threat.
2006-10-29 14:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Silly ol Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how would u feel if it was you fiance talking to another girl on the phone im sure you would not like it ,even if he had known her 8 years the best rule in life is to treat others how you would like to be treated good luck with your decisions
2006-10-29 14:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make absolutely no sense. You say that "NOT having girl/guy friends works well"..........That's because he doesnt have any girlfriends. How would you feel if he did???
But you have a guy friend, and dont understand why you cant keep him. I think I see a bit of a double standard in your thinking.
2006-10-29 14:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if you can convice your husband to have a three some this way you get to be with the new guy and you spice up your sex life
2006-10-29 14:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust.
2006-10-29 14:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just jealous or maybe insecure. Maybe he feels threatened by him. He might need some reassurance because of that and sooner or later he will have to get over being or feeling that way.
2006-10-29 14:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by P K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋