2006-10-29 06:31:26 · 12 answers · asked by jsdjbrettwarton@btinternet.com 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
I am sure there are some that don't suffer but I understand! I am a suffering step-mother with a live in 15 year son and we have a lot of issues even though I am the only mother he has known for the last 8 1/2 years! It's tough!
2006-10-29 06:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, i wish you'd said why, and then could try and give a better answer, I had a great relationship with my step children, and still do really, even though i split with their mum after 4 years, the boy still has a better relationship with me and is closer to me than his biological dad (who's still around, they don't have a particularly bad relationship or anything, he's a nice guy) and it was great a lot of the time. But there still used to be problems as well, there's a lot of new emotions to deal with that you don't otherwise experience unless you're in that position. But I don't know what the problems are, I'm sure some fathers reading your question are thinking they are suffering enough with their own children, so it depends on whether it's just a general parenting problem you've got, or one specific to being a stepfather. I suffered at times, but enjoyed the good bits, and learned to deal with it in time. Good luck anyway!
2006-10-29 06:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by punkrockdreadlock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what youre suffering, but I had a stepfather and we suffer as well.
2006-10-29 06:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by XhappytalkX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all do remember you are playing on a different team now new ground
new rules and most importantly new spectatorsto make happy try to be more of a team player not easy but worth a try give a little more with the wind try to remember the age factors that will help to focus on your new world get back to me in a while then we try again dont give up FOCUS ALAN
2006-10-29 09:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by not a mused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all.
From the proud step father of a 23 year old step son, raised since age 10.
2006-10-29 06:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by quagi m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without knowing how you are suffering its difficult to say but being a step parent is not an easy task especially if your step children see you as trying to replace their real father. Just love them. One day they will realise how much you love them.
2006-10-29 08:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya!! i aint sure what you suffer from but i know for definate that when my step father first came along i didnt like him and for the first year i didnt want him there but it was only because i didnt want him to take my mum away from me!! dont worry things will get better!!
Good Luck :)
2006-10-29 06:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by holly xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my step dad to bits, so the answer is no.
Sorry you haven't got a stepchild/children that appreciate you.
2006-10-29 06:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Candy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably one of the hardest jobs in the world
2006-10-29 06:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by sparkles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f you would tell us why you are suffering we may help you.
2006-10-29 06:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Frank H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋