Ok well im 14. I have three friends I consider true friends. Lately they have separated themselves from me and im an outcast in school. Im not concieted or anything but I get alot of handsome guys... I realized I like the idea of being with a girl just as much as being with a guy. They say ive become a " wild child". Is this just a phase or am I just a wild bi- curious 14 yr old with issues?
2006-10-29 06:22:04 · 7 answers · asked by Carly 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Uhm. Could be a phase - or you could be bi. Neither means you're going crazy.
2006-10-29 07:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are jealous: Sounds like you are adventurous.
Really, there is nothing wrong with the way you feel but your friends probably want to separate themselves from you because they cannot handle those sorts of feelings. Maybe you should just keep those feelings to yourself for awhile. Some people want to use religion to cast judgment on others, as well. Just take your time to figure things out for yourself and don't be a sheep but also don't smack you head to often on the wall of convention because things might just tumble down around you.
2006-10-29 14:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. Just be yourself and don't be influenced by what you see and don't do stuff because you know people will like it, do it because it feels good to you. I am straight, married, have a kid, I went through that it was a phase but it's all about growing up and learning your personality. Explore but don't get out of hand. You are 14, plenty of time to grow so don't rush it, time goes by to fast
2006-10-29 14:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by momma whitley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** them bump them in 4 years probaly less you will find i new group of friends who will except just be lucky your a bi girl not a bi boy like me atleast society looks at you as normal im just a homo freak your blessed ?
2006-10-29 14:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you're not going crazy...you're just beginning to find out who you really are...relax...life will still be an enjoyable trip no matter what you are...I would say that you are probably bi or at least bi-curious.
2006-10-29 14:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait huh i dont really get ur ? but i think i can help: it mayb was sumthing u did fix that or cuz u would rather hang w/ boys ( sum friends mite feell left out)
2006-10-29 14:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by obnoxtious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg im going though the exacct same thing and im the same age
2006-10-29 14:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by im lost come and find me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋