I cheated on my husband 3 times because he worked a lot and I wanted loving. He is now marrying a new women and she is rich and very beautiful. I got nothing in divorce court because his fiance bought the best divorce lawyer money can buy. He seems so happy and it makes me jealos that hes happy without me. I want to ruin his life now. How can I do it????
2006-10-29 06:10:51 · 26 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow! What a hateful heart you have. You do know that old phrase, what comes around goes around? I would watch what you do and say. Being vindictive will not get you anywhere. I think you should just walk away with your head up and take what little pride you may have for yourself with you. Hurting other people is never the answer. Let the man be happy. You have obviously done enough to him!
2006-10-29 06:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Him working a lot, does not give you the right to cheat! First of all why do you think he was working so much? To support the household! so you got nothing? whose fault was it? If it wasn't for your cheating, there would not have been a divorce! Love went out the window! Now cause he is happy, you want to ruin it for him, It wasn't bad enough you made him unhappy the first time, you want some way to do it again! Quit feeling sorry for yourself and get on with your life!
2006-10-29 14:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you,I know It's hard for you right now but what makes you think even if you did get him back things would change. He would still work a lot and you would get lonely and want more then he is willing to give.Did you ever think why he spent so much time working,is that where he met her 75% of all affairs are with co-workers.Sorry to say but this whole thing needs to run It's course.Your ex needs to find out which one he really wants on his own.Right now it doesn't look good for you,remember you hurt this man and his pride.You say you love him so let him be happy and be happy for him. Let him see that side of you the side he fell in love with that is all you can do.
2006-10-29 15:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all ready tried to ruin his life the first 3 times that you cheated on him. Just bc he worked alot does not give you an excuse to cheat on him, did you think that would help your marriage. He was trying to provide for his family and you showed your appreciation by cheating on him. Now he's moved on with his life and your jealous because of that, grow up, get some help, do something other than what you are. Move on with your life and learn from your stupid mistakes and maybe one day you will be happy as well. and stop playing the victim.
2006-10-29 14:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by P K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly really feel this way in your heart, what would you have wanted him do you cheating on him? It makes you jealous that he's happy without you? Once you broke your vows and gave yourself to another, you were no longer his to be happy with. He worked a lot and you wanted loving, maybe you should of handle it in a more respectful way. You're not upset that he's happy with someone else, you're upset because obviously you're no longer with this person that you cheated with. So now you want to lash out @ your ex. Instead of sitting around thinking how to mess up his life again. Why don't you forgive yourself for what you did to your family pray to God for forgiveness and leave the past in the past.
2006-10-29 14:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. When he was married to you, you showed your love for him by cheating. If you wanted loving from a man who's only crime was working (and obviously taking care of you), then you should have bought a dog. How dare you be so wicked. Do you even realize how silly you sound saying that you cheated on him three times because....You are actually trying to justify why you cheated. There is no justification, simpleton. Get a life.
2006-10-29 14:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about that, you are just ruining your life. Think that perhaps you made a mistake by cheating on him. It seems as if you really never loved him, now let him be. Leave him alone and move on with your life. Maybe you will soon find that perfect person in your life, but don't go around being the evil one, it can turn against you!
2006-10-29 14:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not because she brought the best lawyer the reason you got nothing, but because of you cheatting . courts look down on such things and if it is brought to light while your fighting for your divorce you will always lose a lot of times women loose their children to the husband for such behavior, i can understand how you feel , but if you do anything to them and they can trace it back to you , depending on what you did you could end up in jail or with a law suit... and if she is as rich as you say she will have no trouble getting her self a lawyer
2006-10-29 14:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already attempted to. He gave you three chances. I could tell you but since you are in tyhe wrong all the way around here I won't.
My wife just recently figured out I cheated on her while she was away. What I wouldn't give for an actual 2nd chance that it looks like I won't get. You were blessed with three! What's wrong with you? You are in violation and then you want to make him even more misrerable now that he's found someone to make him happy.
If you truly loved him you would want his happiness before all. Looks to me like you just wanted some dick. Shame on you. It's women like you who make many men distrust all women.
2006-10-29 14:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aer very pathetic. You cheated in your marriage, and obviously, you got caught. Your mistake. You should have kept the dude on the side.
You are getting exactly what you deserve.
Not all, but some men deserve to be happy. He is truly one of them.
2006-10-29 14:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋