Im 19 and i started ny Nursing training at university last month, everything was great until i met a lad whom i really like.
the only problem is, he doesnt understand that i can only see him twice a week because he lives in a different city and i have lots of studying. i really want to be with him, but im now really confused. i dont want to loose him, but i dont think he will wait for me!
2006-10-29 06:04:26 · 14 answers · asked by lauz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he wont wait for you he's not worth it, you will spend your whole life regretting it if you give up a career for someone who might not even be the one
2006-10-29 06:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by fiona_webby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl in this day and age a career is much more important than a man. Who's gonna take care of you? What hospital is going to hire you without college experience? If he can't understand find someone who will. Education is very important. What's more important to you, staying where you are on the corporate ladder or moving up another rung?
2006-10-29 06:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Nessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheerio numbnuts.thats what you should be saying.if he thinks anything of you he'll understand that you have to do ya training.whats he doin thats so important that he cant get off his ar*e a come and see you.also you are 19 and please, im not trying to be patronising but you've got alot of life to lead and even though he maybe "the one" you still need to keep your focus.in addition, so far he doesnt sound like he should be anyones "the one" anyway.he wait around and not Pressure you if he's any kind of a man.
good luk and well done in advance for when you complete ya course.
2006-10-29 06:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by aberdeen302004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up on your studying, if he truly likes you he would understand that you have to do your course.
I gave up my course 3 years ago to spend more time with my boyfriend as I was at uni all day mon-fri, then working weekends. Anyway I left got a shitty job working for McDonalds and still work there.
Im no longer with that boyfriend, im now engaged with a son. I love my life - But I would do anything to turn back time just so I can do my course. You'll live to regret it if you dont do your course.
2006-10-29 06:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some guy does not want you to make the most of your abilities they are looking for a girl that must be dependent upon them forever. At age 19 you are too young to make the choice of being dependent upon someone else forever. Get the education, if you lose him for that reason, you are too smart to worry about losing him. Good Luck!
2006-10-29 07:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by jpbofohio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he liked you that much he would wait...I bet everyone has written this as their answer so I will tell you more!!
You should choose CAREER and then MAN, just think, your career will support you through all the years, providing you with security and money etc, but men come and go..and they aren't always reliable, but your degree will be :)
It will be hard to let him go but as I said if he likes you that much babe then he will wait for you, or be more understanding :)
2006-10-29 06:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not waiting for you,then he's not really for you.
Take your career first. Only the man that understands this will be for you.
Think of it this way. If you quit your course, go with this guy, and marry etc. and he leaves you, what do you have to fall back on?
Your career is more important.
2006-10-29 06:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe if he wont wait for you he aint worth it. i can give good advice just cant take it but i know im right because trust me im in your situation but ten times worse. me and my lil girl have had to move away from everyone split with my fiancee who my daughter accepts as her dad and loves him dearly. i moved sep for my daughter to start school and i start my nursing in january. he might meet someone in that 3 yrs and it will kill me but you know wot you will always have your career. your only young babe wish i would have done it then no ties. good luck sweetheart.x
2006-10-29 07:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by angelalways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wont wait then he aint worth it.
i would always choose love over my career but not if im being made to make that decision. get rid of him and go out with me i understand.
2006-10-29 06:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by the faceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares and respects you, he will understand that you have to consider your future. If he gives you a hard time well I'm afraid he's not the person for you.
2006-10-29 07:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋