Sure I like sex. I've had it with a few boyfriends before I was married and with my husband. It's nice and all, so I'm not saying I don't like it. I just don't really care too much about it. It's just not that big a deal. I don't mind it- it's nice to have an orgasm. But I just think it is way over-rated. There are lots of things that I think are more fun. If I only had sex 5 times a year, I wouldn't mind.
Is there anyone else who agrees with me?
2006-10-29 05:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by blahblah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sure I like sex. I've had it with a few boyfriends before I was married and with my husband. It's nice and all, so I'm not saying I don't like it. I just don't really care too much about it. It's just not that big a deal. I don't mind it- it's nice to have an orgasm. But I just think it is way over-rated. There are lots of things that I think are more fun. If I only had sex 5 times a year, I wouldn't mind.
Is there anyone else who agrees with me?
EDIT: Hey people, READ. I said I like sex. It's pleasant. I don't know where you get off thinking that I don't have sex with my husband. We have sex all the time.
I'm just saying I think it is over-rated. I wouldn't miss it if we hardly ever did it. People talk about it and it is on TV like it is the greatest thing in the world, and I have a lot more fun doing other things. Sex is really low down on my list of preferred activities.
So you don't have to give marriage advice. I'm asking if I'm alone in thinking this way.
2006-10-29 06:13:03 · update #1
I believe that we each have different levels of sexuality. I am a highly sexual person, and you apparently are not. It's not good or bad, it's just one of many things that make us individuals.
I am currently single and looking, and consider sexual compatibility a big priority in finding potential matches. I have been married, and also had another long-term relationship. I have learned that if you are mismatched with a partner, a lot of frustration and resentment can build up and cause problems throughout the relationship.
2006-10-29 06:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I am married for almost 4 yrs now. And I up on till I got married did I even like it. My husband made me want it all the time. But we went from 3 to 4 times aday to once a month. I have always been able to go with out it. It doesn't even faze me anymore. I have recently had an beutiful sexual encounter with a massager and well lets just say. It is alot easier cause there is no DRAMA
It happens this feeling of not wanting it. Especially when u get married. No clue why
2006-10-29 06:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel very badly for your husband.
At least be nice to him and let him have sex with others. I can appreciate that you are not interested in sex, but for guys everywhere, I am telling you that your husband NEEDS it more than 5 times a year. Men are different than women. I'd respect your wishes not to have it. Please respect his needs to get some on a regular basis.
Make your husband an offer of him having sex at least once a month with someone else. At least give him permission to go to strip clubs to watch the ladies dance once a week or so.
Please be nice to your husband by doing thing that aren't full insertion.
As a husband, I've been given permission for others when I was told no. She at least understands that I NEED something.
2006-10-29 06:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by bird_brain_88 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need serious counseling, sex is the most beautiful thing and to have often is great... I am sorry if I come off as harsh, but you are being a bit selfish don't you think? Your husband has needs to and this is not all about you. Stop and learn to enjoy it and to do different things in bed it may suprise you as to what great sex really is and why you will want it more.
2006-10-29 05:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the same as you, there are many other things in life that are way more important than sex, yet some guys seem to only think about that.
2006-10-29 06:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I don't agree with you. Sex is a healthy part of life. Lack of Sex is a sign of other problems (serious probems)
2006-10-29 05:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cash on sex. take it as a gift. enjoy to the ultimum and level your desires. sometimes, a long wait at the door of fullfillment will lead you to a better orgasm.
2006-10-29 06:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It is overrated. People love to exaggerate!! That's why a lot of virgin girls fall into that trap. They lose their v-card and then just realize that it wasn't all that and regret it!!
2006-10-29 05:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I could take it or leave it.
2006-10-29 05:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with you.
2006-10-29 05:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by rorlegion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋