had the relationship for 2 yrs
2006-10-29 05:40:35 · 31 answers · asked by RIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
naww, tell him you don't bleed because you were a gymnast and the hymen broke in your childhood.
2006-10-29 05:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well well well !!
Consider the pros and cons :
If you tell there are two possibilities : he may admire you more for being truthfull or he may hate you for not telling him before.
If you get the first one type of a husband ..love him like crazy and dont let go ....
if you get the second type of person then you have met someone who is insecure and feels that you could be unfaithfull again .. So dump him.
After all any marriage cannot survive on sex alone .. you need the love and understanding for it to work.
If a person can tell if his wife is a virgin or no would mean that he also is not one .. afterall seeing is believing and if the split hymen is a proof of virginity lost, then Good Lord help all the cyclist , atheletes or people who satisfy themselves
2006-10-29 14:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by insane53.geo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way he will know. It's impossible he can know and everyone who says he will does not have an accurate understanding of the situation.
However, you should tell him. It's very wrong to lie about past sexual experience, and nowadays it is not just unethical- it is also dangerous. Your husband has the right for you to answer him honestly in order to protect his own health. Beyond that, it is just crappy to start a marriage off with a lie and if he will get mad at you, you probably shouldn't marry him in the first place. Honestly, if you are asking this question, I think you should not get married yet.
2006-10-29 13:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by blahblah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 2 yrs, you want your new husband to believe you as a virgin? it's impossible to make him believe you. you may tell him the truth. that may help you get a better thoughtfull life with him..
2006-10-29 13:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men, especially younger men (ages 20-35) are clueless when it comes to virginity. Like an orgasm, you can fake it and he'll never know.
2006-10-29 14:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know if they can tell or not! I think they determine it by your tightness. Honestly my husband was my first and a few months later we arged about women in his past and I told him he wasn't my first, He said he couldn't tell the difference either way! So no I dont think they can tell..
2006-10-29 14:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord he isn't a virgin either. Everyone has a past no matter how young or old you are. Plus experience is always good.
2006-10-29 13:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you shouldn't lie to your husband, you guys should always talk to each other with the truth. If he really loves you, i'm pretty sure that will not matter to him, just don't lie about it.
2006-10-29 14:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, I realize some pple might disagree but I say it's none of his business. No fair that you can't learn whether or not your friend is a virgin but he can learn this about you.
But jilt him if he minds.
2006-10-29 13:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by possum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya ur husband will surely *** to know so its better u tell the truth b4 he asks u sometimes ur honesty saves u from big dangers as the almighty is always with those who dare to speak the truth
2006-10-29 14:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by HONEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can never come to know this untill you tell him.
plz dont tell him abt your past and you also forget it, no man will tolerate that his wife had a past may be for time being he becomes broad minded but whenever there will be a little bit stress in relationship memory of your past will add fuel to fire
2006-10-29 14:02:38 · answer #11 · answered by satyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋