I got into a fight with my husband because he forgot to put the milk away. He said he was sorry but I just kept yelling at him for no reason. Then I said something i never should have said. I told him he had a small penis and that he was worthless in bed. He avoids all physical contact with me now and basically spends all his time at work now to avoid me. He doesnt know but i caught him in the bathroom crying. What do i do????
2006-10-29 05:24:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are screwed. Asking him for a penile enlargement would be the wrong thing to do. Sometimes people throw the first punch too hard, and the relationship goes downhill from there. You'll feel like crap if he kills himself over this.
I always say that there is no sense in crying over spoilt milk.
2006-10-29 05:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Your husband is probably going to end up cheating on you to get validation, so when he does just remember you deserve it. If i had a penny for everytime I said something hurtful to my husband over something stupid i'd be rich. But I would never attack his manhood. You should have gone into the bathroom where he was crying and say, i'm so sorry, I didn't mean it. You should have fallen to his feet and asked for forgiveness. You still have the chance to do that. You can still go to him and tell him how sorry you are for saying such a hurtful thing. Tell him that his penis isn't small, your vagina is just too stretched out. Promise him anal sex until your vagina gets tighter. HAHAHA It may make him laugh and maybe even make him forgive you. Finally, you need to look into getting on some medication. If you're going off about silly stuff like that, you need some serious help.
2006-10-29 07:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you. Do you feel like you made a mistake in acting out in this way? If so, then an apology is in order and some St Johns Wort I think. Getting this worked up over something as trivial as not putting a carton of milk away is a sign of deeper issues. IF..you really feel badly about this, you are going to have to wait a bit and give him a little time to cool down before approaching him with an apology. It would also help to let him know you recognize you have a problem with anger management and are willing to address it.
2006-10-29 05:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rich B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you really shot down his ego... no man wants to hear he has a small penis, especially from his wife. You need to convince him that out of the heat of an arguement, you said something that you really didn't mean, ask him to forgive you and tell him your sorry and mean it. Perhaps you can go one step further, cook him his favorite dinner, wear something sexy to the candle lit dinner table, spill some gravy or something he likes down your front, as him if he can help you clean it up... put on some soft jazz (wether you like it or not) set a mood for romance, eventually he will be at your beckon call. Make him feel like a man, give into him and admit you were wrong, because honestly, you were. Hope everything works out between you two, Good Luck
2006-10-29 05:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by LEO H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to ask him for forgiveness and get into some type of counseling. It sounds like you have some serious anger management problems and if you don't figure out how to deal with your anger you will end up destroying your marriage and everyother relationship in your life. I don't care how angry you get, there are certain lines in life that you don't cross and you just crossed one. As for your comment about his penis and his being worthless in bed don't be too suprised if he's not working late at his job, but in the arms of another woman. If he is this is your fault, you brought this one upon yourself. All of this over such a minor incident. What a shame. I hope for your sake that he truly loves you, otherwise your marriage is most likely over.
2006-10-29 05:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have personal demons that you need to work on getting rid of. Why is it necessary to insult someone merely because he didn't put the milk away? You could have just picked it up and done it yourself. Personally, if I were your husband, I would leave you because you don't seem to be very nice to him. What would you do if he really screwed up?
First, assuming that you were telling the truth, you married him so why are you insulting him. You attacked his manhood - I guess - because he was crying. What can you say? I can't help you - you are not treating him nicely.
2006-10-29 05:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have messed up royaly. He will never, ever, ever forgive you for what you said. He might forget it for a little while but you have placed that picture in his head that he is not good enough for you. You might as well get ready for a separation. Thats how bad you did. I suggest you work out, take some vitamins to make your mood happier, clean the entire house from now on and try to do as he pleases.
2015-03-12 13:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by malcolmx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up royally!!! Over Milk????? Please!!!!!!!
There is no way to fix what you have said!!!
I sure as he** would be staying as far away from you too!!!
Marriage isn't just about sex dumba**
It's commitment to each other through all that life gives us. It's loving each other for who they are, not how much they have in their pants.
You best find a way to apologize, BUT, only when you truely are sorry AND only if you possibly want to continue your marriage.
BUT BE ADVICED RIGHT NOW
He might not want to have you as his wife anymore.
Also, don't be surprised if your sex life stays at zilch for a very long time. That was the worst thing you could have said to him!!!!
2006-10-29 05:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
How big a hammer does it take to get through a thick skull? I mean, he says that he's done with you, you aren't living together...what else does it take? File for divorce where YOU live and get the business taken care of. Don't carry the emotion, just look at it as business now. He keeps telling you but you just aren't getting it! He keeps telling you and you just don't get it. He keeps telling you and you just don't get it....
2016-05-22 05:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He deserves better than you. No matter how you tell him that you didn't mean it, he will always think that you think his penis is small. No guy gets over that. You've scarred him for the rest of your marriage, which is going to end soon. I hope you've learned a few things so you won't those mistakes in your next marriage. I'm glad I'm not married to you.
2006-10-29 05:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Spend every moment profusely apologizing! You have entered the no zone. That is the most painful thing you could've ever said to a man. Their sexuality is very impportant and you just knocked out his ego. Terrible mistake
2006-10-29 05:46:29 · answer #11 · answered by Sweetteach 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋