Got any good looks tips? what do people look for? fashon? make-up? personality?
2006-10-29 05:10:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Once you realize that people who base their friendships on fashion, makeup, and appearances are shallow and not worth your time, you may be ready to meet people that will see you for who you are, and not what you look like.
It will help if you can do the same.
2006-10-29 05:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well what do u want to know? is there a person in the world who loves you? of course there is, ur parents, friends, relatives, etc. dont be depressed about that. If you're talking about ur appearence, dont change a thing. If you want to try out new fashion, go ahead, that is what guys go for in first impressions. Personality comes after appearence when you are actually talking to a guy. you need to show value and laugh at times. When you said that you were a good person, im assuming ur nice, etc. Never be nice to the point of being ingnorant, since that can be taken advantage of.
2006-10-29 13:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by coolchess123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and display confidence. Don't be afraid to tell others how you feel and invite them out with you. Be kind, considerate, and aware when others need assistance. Sometimes the best way to make a friend is when someone needs you. During this time of year, keep tea bags and throat losenges in your desk at work. When someone is sick, offer it to them. If you go out to lunch, invite them along. If someone in the office loses a loved one to death, send them a card. If someone has a new baby, buy them a gift or just send a simple congratulations card. Before long, your personality will begin to shine through and you'll have friends.
2006-10-29 13:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by LadyDeathStryke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I have the same problem but plzzz dont become fake jus to be liked. Fashion should be for onesself...I think I need rto be more confident to be liked about myself and my relationships. Be strong and really like them....It takes guts to like people. But at the same time try to understand ppl coz everyone is not LIKABLE or deserves ur love. Hope no one causes harm to u. I think u are a nice girl.
I don say this to anyone but U could be my friend... OK and plz invest in character. It is true inner beauty . If ur character is good u will be liked for it.
2006-10-29 13:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, I feel exactly the same way. I wear cute cloths, im nice, really fun, I don't understand why the popular people like me. Then I figured that It's because I dont go to any school member hosted parties (alcohol, music, etc.)
Basically, for people to like you, you need an "in". Start talking to one of the popular people in one of your classes and discuss something you know that they have an interest in. Just don't be fake. Then after a while invite her to hang out with you and she can bring a couple friends.. BAM your in
2006-10-29 13:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I base my opinion on someone mainly on first impressions..... Seldom I'm wrong about that person.
So if no one likes you... you may have to take a step back.. and take a good look at yourself. What is it that is turning people off?
Most of the time, it's because your trying to hard to be liked... and being false! You are most likely a good , likable person if you would only be yourself.... if that don't work, it's probably because your self absorbed... we'll leave it at that!
2006-10-29 13:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by T-man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! Change up that avatar look! Get a cheerful smile! Personality. You have to be fair, share, care, be nice, and cheer someone you like when they're down.
Don't be nice to someone who is mean to you.
Be nice to someone that really cares about you.
Or if you want to be extra nice, care for everyone.
Get the outgoing kind of personality.
2006-10-29 13:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by ☺DQ☻ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to be a nicer person, and be helpful to people! Also try going to some stylist for tips on hair make-up etc...u could also get more fashionable clothing...and if people don't like u, you shouldn't have to change yourslef too much...if they don't like u the way u are...why should u have to change urself for other people!
Hope it helped!
2006-10-29 13:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie P 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hav u even tried to understand others feelings? do u really know that none likes you? how can you say that none likes you? you should know that God has made the only thing "LOVE" that every body gets. You should try to be smart, if you are then try to understand what one likes or not. c every guy wants that girl who is pretty, smart worker, cheerful, fresh, polite and many more.. and you know what does every girl want? every boy likes that girl who is simple but if the boy is fond of fashion then he wants that girl who is also fond of fashion. if you like any boy then you should try to go more near his heart with smile, fresh face. there r many boys who want that girl come near him and express her love for him because they r afraid that if they express their feelings thn girl will reject them. I am also a same type of boy .i want that girl come near me and say I LOVE YOU. but it never happens. so try to understand that he likes you or not .if not then try to find the "Mr. Rigth"
Note:- please don't think that i m discouraging you if you really like him then try to be best in his sight. May god help you. If you hav any problem thn you can personnaly contact me at Email- info4sujeet@yahoo.co.in
thank you.
2006-10-29 13:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by sujeet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wearing a simple, clean outfit is fine, nice cleaned groomed hair - and just a little bit of make just to bring out the nice features of you face will do also. as long as the person is showered, well groom and respectfull, polite, compassionate to others. i promised you, you'll be more than liked - you'll be adored. good luck
2006-10-29 13:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋