I try so hard to get things through my husbands head but he never listens. I am so frustrated with this. what can i do for him to start listening to what i have to say.
2006-10-29 05:04:40 · 6 answers · asked by nicole51304 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what i mean is he dont listen when i have something to say i have a say in nothing and left my family 600 miles away because he wanted to move and i dont get to ever talk to my parents and im going through a lot and just need support but he is not there for me.
2006-10-29 05:32:22 · update #1
stop talking to him. when he asks you why your not talking tell him that you don't listen anyway so why should i bother.
2006-10-29 05:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're so frustrated I suppose there's not much humor left between the two of you. So, why not try an approach that will not only catch his attention but also make him laugh. Next time he refuses to listen, get rid of all your clothes and go stand in front of him with a very straight face. You then tell him what's on your mind! Or, if you don't have the courage for something as drastic, get yourself a police whistle and blow as hard as you can on it to get his attention. Warn him that from now on you'll use any means in forcing him to listen. You can even send him cell phone messages or leave him little notes, saying: "Aren't you a bit curious of what I have to say?" Remember, nagging and whining never help when a man doesn't want to listen. While something out of the ordinary always gets their attention!
2006-10-29 14:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, do you only try to get him to listen to you when there is an argument going on? Do you sit and talk to him about what he likes as well as your thoughts? Remember, women have a "need" to talk a certain number of words a day, men don't. Sometimes it is overwhelming and existing for them to be bombarded. All that said, I really think your best bet is to seek out counseling for both of you. If he won't listen to you about going, start out alone. Changing your perspective can make a difference.
2006-10-29 13:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your family have to do with your husband? He is your family now. One has nothing to do with the other. Let's be clear to separate the two issues.
Now, your husband needs to give you 15 minutes of undivided attention each day so he can "hear" your emotional state of mind and be there to support you because that is his role as your protector and lover. You need to politely and respectfully tell him that your emotional needs are not being met in the marriage and that you are concerned about this and that he needs to take your concerns seriously.
2006-10-29 13:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his a ss and leave him a writhing message a promess you he will listened more when you get back
2006-10-29 13:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to fiend someone alse
2006-10-29 13:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋