my boyfriend was over last night and we were making out and stuff and then my mom saw us through a window from the outside. Now they don't like him anymore and It sucks. I dont know what I can do to get them to like him again. I like him a lot and I dont want to loose him because my parents are gay. So basically I need some advise as to what we can do to have them like him again and have trust in both of us. PLEASE HELP ME!
2006-10-29 05:02:50 · 14 answers · asked by suzie147 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are adult enough to make out you are adult enough to get a job and move out, away from your gay parents.
2006-10-29 05:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If your under say, 16, it may be tough for them as they must be wondering what else you two have done together. Have you done more than make out? I mean, it was pretty bold of you and your bf to be "making out and stuff," right under your parents roof. If ya'll will do that where you might get caught, what else will you do when you are completely by yourselves?
Your parents are looking out for your best interest, as you one day will when you have your own kids. They are being parents and you need to be thankful your parents care enough to say something.
I would chill out with the "making out and stuff" and honor your parents. However, it will take a long time, if ever, for them to suddenly think this boy has good intentions towards you.
You may think because he's all hot and bothered when he is with you that he's all in love with you. Trust me, he could get hot and bothered by a dozen other girls if given the chance. And if he can't get from you what he wants, he will move on to the next girl who will. And even if you do give in to him now, he will eventually move on to his next conquest.
Your bf is just a typical hor*ey guy. Period. Don't let yourself be used like that. Cause one day you might be wishing you'd listened to your parents.
2006-10-29 05:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by gailfrances 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your b/f should both sit down with your parents and apologize for what happened and tell them it will never happen again (as long as you don't get caught).
2006-10-29 05:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents. Find out what the rules are and follow them.
2006-10-29 05:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry him - they may come around in time. Otherwise, be aware that you broke a rule, and you probably broke a trust, it will be difficult to impossible to achieve what you're asking.
2006-10-29 05:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably thought he was being disrespectful so you both need to apologize and let them know you won't do it again..lol...No matter how much you talk to them, they are not going to like him...he has to step up to the plate and apologize to them...
2006-10-29 05:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by KB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make them beleive that he is the right guy for u.and if they dnt understand u jst do wat u want.parents have their control till sm extent,they cant restrict u while taking the most imp decision of ur life.after all its ur life and u have to take the final decision.if u r happy ur parents also will be happy may be not now bt afterwards they will be
2006-10-29 05:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by sakshi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him by the hand and go to your parents and talk openly about this....you are not alone in this thing...maybe they will understand that you are both responsible ... and that you are a couple that deal problems as a team
2006-10-29 05:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by googletrei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it's over. They will always dislike the guy who ruined their vision of a chaste, sweet little girl. Hang it up.
2006-10-29 05:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh oh theres basically no way to get out of that one, unless your boyfriend meets your parents face to face and shows that he's a gentleman
2006-10-29 05:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋