i have lots of gay friends but still cant understand what is it that makes a person gay.can a straight person turn gay?or how does it work?
2006-10-29 05:00:08 · 19 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
gay people are born that way...they may pretend that they are straight for years or their whole lives..but they are born gay...that's how it works...nobody turns a straight person gay...why would I want someone that I had to MAKE want me?
2006-10-29 06:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all unconditional, the love is. My best friend admitted to me that she was gay and I felt no different around her, because my love for her was unconditional. It shouldn't matter that a woman is with a woman and a man is with a man. As long as that person is happy and content then everything is fine. Love chooses no color, height, gender, or education. I thought how and why for a while, but when I saw the way her face lit up when the girlfriend would call or the little things in life that they'd both appreciate together, I didn't have to question anymore. It was all good.
2006-10-29 06:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by SaudiSlim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes any person fall for any other person? It's no one thing. It's an attraction that's often not something that's necessarily logical or easily explainable; it doesn't matter the gender of the people involved, the whole attraction thing is fairly similar.
Straight people can't become gay, but they can have physical relationships with people of the same sex and visa versa. If someone is gay, straight, or somewhere in between, the person generally knows. This knowledge is separate, though, from whether or not someone chooses to act upon their attractions and desires.
2006-10-29 05:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by question_ahoy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am straight, and I am still trying to figure out how straight people fall in love. Why do people want to put themselves in a situation where they have to check in with somebody whenever they want to spend money, go on a trip, etc, etc. I enjoy sex and companionship. I am just not so much into linking myself up with another person when it comes to money, my time, etc. I would love to have a best friend with monogamous benefits situation.
2006-10-29 05:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by the guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fallin in love in a gay relationship, is the same as a straight relationship. Love is a universal feeling and has no gender.
2006-10-29 05:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a straight person can turn gay and a gay straight.
2006-10-29 05:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by STAR POWER=) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you wake up one morning and "decide" to be heterosexual?? People don't "turn" gay. It "works" the same way for everyone -- you're naturally drawn to a person for whatever reasons are within you. I really don't understand why this is so difficult for so many people to grasp.
2006-10-29 05:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Attraction! It's in the genes. Either you are gay or you're not. Often times, it's a curosity-but eventually the real person comes out-and it's ok.
2006-10-29 05:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by muffin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutie-
A straight person can't turn gay.
I don't know why I'm gay, I just am. Why are you straight? It's just how it is! We're not choosing to be the way we are.
2006-10-29 05:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women are just beautiful. They smell good, they feel soft, they are delicate (some), and just feminine. I love girls. If you put a naked man next to a naked woman, I'd think that the woman was more attractive everytime. Men naked make me laugh.
2006-10-29 05:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋