Ive been trying to get pregnant?

Question

My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant since probably March or April and we havent had any luck. I had a miscarriage in Sept. but we havent stopped trying. We really want to start our family and nothing is working. Any ideas?

Answer 1

I understand how you feel, my husband and I had been trying for about 7 months. I tried counting the days, and taking my temperature. I finally decided to buy a fertility monitor and test sticks. (Clearblue Easy Fertility Monitor) I actually got a new one off Ebay for half the price if I had gotten it in a store. You pee on the test stick, put it in the monitor and it tells you if you're low, high or peak fertility. It turns out I ovulated a full week ahead of when I thought I was. I got pregnant the first month using it!

I could have been continuing to do the same thing for the next year, and still not have gotten pregnant. It may not be the best choice for everyone, but it was for us. I'm only kicking myself for not buying one sooner. Good luck to you!

Answer 2

If you are under the age of 35 and have been having unprotected sex you should give it a shot for one year. The fact that you had a miscarriage proves that you CAN get pregnant and you just need to keep trying for a little longer. If after one year you still aren't pregnant then you should go see a doctor to make sure everything is working properly which I am sure it is. It's actually pretty common for women to have miscarriages usually it happems around the time the girl is supposed to start her period so she doesn't even realize it. It's doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Good luck!

Answer 3

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Miscarriages can be due to many reasons. You must remember that the child formation in a body is not like something that is happening in a machine. There is nothing being held together by bolts and nuts. There are no screws to be tightened. The whole thing is held together by your own muscles and other results of hormones and enzyme reactions.

Your physical activities contribute to this a lot. If you strain yourself. If you wear tight body wear. If you wear high heeled shoes - all have an affect on it

Your mental condition also matters a lot. If you are depressed. If you get angry often etc affects the enzymes in your body.

The food also contributes - I know unripe pineapples affect pregnancy.

I know of a lady who spent the last 6 months in bed with knees up most of the day to avoid her 3rd miscarriage - and she succeeded.

Good Luck

Answer 4

To BethRae -- I had the same problem so I started to doctor and five years later (many tests and mini surgeries) we had three beautiful children .

Answer 5

this worked for my buddys wife . they where trying for a long time . after sex prop a pillow under youre butt this keeps the sperm in longer . lay for 30 min or so .

Answer 6

Go for a holiday the chance is higher .. Cos both of you will feel relax....

Answer 7

Adoption.

Answer 8

keep tryin, sometimes youre body needs time. eventually it may happen