have you ever loved someone that you told you they loved you,but in the end,they didnt?how did this experience change the way you feel about dating,or did it?maybe we can help others and we could learn from one another.be honest and speak the truth,thats the best way to go,so all my yahoo readers,get at me!
2006-10-29 03:24:13 · 7 answers · asked by dimediva901 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have never stopped loving someone from my past. It's been many years. Our relationship didn't work and they decided to date all of my throw-aways - which really hurt me. She is still with my last ex-gf.
I on occasion still see them in the streets or at some event and my heart will fall. I have just realized this is part of life and there is nothing I can do to make this other person love me, the way that I love them.
Now, even if they did come back. I don't think my sense of decency would allow me to be with them again. I just hold on to the picture in my mind of what it could have been...
2006-10-29 04:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds, makes you carefull in the future. Broken hearts do mend. Dont make the mistake I did, trust no one and stay alone. I am married now and love my husband very much, I will always have something special for my Ex. It just wasnt meant to be. We dont always get what we want, we get what we need.
2006-10-29 03:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by George B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm deeply in love with a friend of mine and has been for many years. I told her how I feel about her and she told me that's fine but she's straight so nothing will ever happen. We are still best friends and I feel blessed to have her in my life even if it's "just" as a friend. I accept things for what they are, I can't change people to fit what I want and they can't change me.
2006-10-29 03:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by --- 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
yes i was with someone who said they loved me but ended up going back to men she never came out and said she never loved me but i mean its like i knew in my heart after all was said and done that her love for me back then wasnt real but the way i dealt with it at the time was i had to distance myself from her as hard as it was, it was the only way i could get over her and had to just face the facts that it wasnt meant to be
2006-10-29 03:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyes3313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who hasn't had their heart broken by someone?
In the long run, it is always worth the risk to love another person.
In the event that it falls apart, you just have to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and move on. Waiting for someone to change their mind is torture and unrealistic.
2006-10-29 03:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jude M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, yah, but 'bounced back' isn't how I handled it. More like 'limped back' , , , Like growing a scab, recovery takes time.
2006-10-29 04:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always have crushes it sucks but in time it will go away
2006-10-29 03:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tigger 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋