I'm a mother for 2 children. Lately i feel so lonely and getting bored with my husband, what shud i do?

Answer 1

Do something that fullfills you such as taking a class in something you have always wanted to learn. You can make new friends that way. Find a babysitter somewhere and make sure you and your husband get out at least once a month together. Try an activity with your husband you have never done before like indoor rock climbing or ballroom dancing. You are only as bored as you let yourself be. Let your hair down a little and experience some new things. Don't just think about it, do it, it will be fun!!!!

Answer 2

I hear you, big time. I went through that, too, with 3 kids. I ended up depressed. It IS isolating, and also draining because you are giving out so much all the time. I really need to know more about YOU, your interests, whether your husband babysits so you can get out, and whether you have family and friends living locally. DO take care of yourself, physically, spiritually, and emotionally. Ask yourself what SMALL steps you can take today to help you enjoy life, for example, buying a magazine, getting your hair done, going for a jog, setting up a date night with your husband, renting a DVD your family can watch together. Your boredom with your husband is a sign that you need to focus a little more on your own life and take responsibility for it. Talk to your husband for some support, but be careful you don't approach him in a blaming way. Good luck... and remember to count your blessings, everyday! It works!

Answer 3

Practice makes Perfect. Get busy in the bedroom, and add some spice in the bedroom -be more seductive ! The spice of life isnt variety its challenging and renewing! You both GAIN!
And go out at least once a month without the kids.

Answer 4

I have been there, I get really bored and lonly even when he is home. I joined clubs with my kids, Mom groups,took up hobbies at night when he could watch the kids I would find a lot of groups to go and hang out at, and just started doing things for me and the kids. Church is a great thing to be involved with. The people at church the dinners the events, and kids are always welcome at church. your local library should have clubs for kids where the mom is involved and should have some different groups for moms too. Also your local community collage might have different classes at night you can take like pottery, painting ect..
I know how you feel, I went through it, but I had to snap out out of it fast for my kids. good luck

Answer 5

I been feeling the same way and think of leaving my husband everyday. I went out and got a job at night so I ahd something constuctive to do and I don't have to be bored at home. You need to find something to do to keep yourself busy or talk to your husband about how youe feel and maybe he can think of things you can do together.

Answer 6

What I do is try to schedule time without the tv OR anything to have family night. We play board games, sing songs, something as a family. If you are bored with your hubby try setting time alone with him to rekindle the romance. I used to call a neighbor to keep the girls for a few hours so we could go see a movie or do something that you love he loves.

Answer 7

if u love ur husband u need to let him know how u r feeling and if he loves u u will come up with a solution together. spice things up in the bedroom, go out together, try new things, get a hobby for urself. if u dont love him its not fair on either of u to pursue the relationship

Answer 8

I hope this helps........

Something Specially
For You

I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.

By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra

Answer 9

I don't know how old your kids are, but could you take them and your husband on a weekend getaway? Or maybe he could watch the kids and you go visit family or friends for the weekend. I guess I need more info to help you.

Answer 10

If you can't take the boredom out of your husband then maybe go on line and find some new meat to talk with to interest you and then go from there just to satisfy your taste to keep you from getting bored