i have a friend..not really a good friend.
she is "I". She is pretty and most of the boys in school like her.....she's cool and stylish...when i was with her i became so jealous like crazy...give me advice 2 overcome my jealousy!!!!
2006-10-29 02:06:31 · 18 answers · asked by mysterious girl this year!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get over it, stop being better than her, be urself, don't worry about others, so what if ur friend is pretty and most of the boys in school like her? Being yourself means having fun and enjoying life
i have a friend that's really jealous of my bestfriend, and she tries to beat her in school, friends, and what not. she even lies to be better than her..i don't know her that well, and she's trying to be everyone, which she sucks at... :)
be urself and have fun
No adventure + no fun = NO LIFE
Adventure + fun = LIFE, this is what u want
i think i deserve ur 10 points :)
2006-10-29 02:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous just because you think your friend is pretty, if she had a bad personality then she wouldn't be beautiful from inside and out if you say that she's not a good friend.
She may look pretty, but the outside doesn't count much.
I don't think you should worry if she's pretty or not, like guys who like for who you are, not just because of the way you look or dress.
2006-10-29 02:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to understand that no one is perfect. Second of all, you have to realize that a majority of young men don't really think about what they actually want in a girl and judge by a girl's looks. Also, guys might be forced into thinking a certain girl is hot because their friends seem to agree and he might feel left out if he doesn't agree with them.
Also, can this certain girl be hididng a problem that lies within?
She might look great on the cover, but the damage may have already been done on the inside.
2006-10-29 03:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by azi g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous... yeah right girls are jealous by nature! It's fine.
You are probably pretty too!!! Don't worry about it.
Really you just have to focus on something else.
Recognize beauty within yourself and if you want to be stylish.. be stylish. Take care of yourself and be positive!!!
When you grow older, you will learn that looks can be deceiving anyways. Also you will realize that these types of things don't matter at all... it's what's inside that counts.
Good luck!
2006-10-29 02:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is brought on by comparing yourself with another person. So stop comparing your looks, talents and characters with her you will only get more jealous when you keep thinking about it. Probably right now she is jealous of you thinking that she is not as pretty as you. Who knows?
2006-10-29 02:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by banner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she was just a friend not your best friend... so spending less time with her shouldn't be a problem for you... there's no magic button we can push to stop emotions like jealousy... she is who she is... and you are who you are... unless something changes like her going bald... just hang with the friends that make you feel good about yourself... I know you wanted a way to overcome it but there not one... sorry!!!
2006-10-29 03:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should she be jealous
80% of girls who are considered very pretty and all the boys like them dun really have a boyfriend who actually like them
most of them will take her as a prize having her is like getting first place so it will not last
so dun worry
there is nothing to be jealous about
juz be happy with who u are
u might not have a bunch of boys after u
but this way u will be able to find the right one for u
someone who loves u for who u are
2006-10-29 02:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by x040493t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... Don't be jelous. WHen you feel like this think of all the good qualities of your self. That might help. Cheer her on and show her that YOU are a good friend. You don't have to hang out with her. And don't try to be like her to get all the boys. That is just nasty. Im not saying that its wrong for boys to like you but she should be a good friend. Just think of all the good things of your self and be happy. Don't 4get be good to her and make her feel guilty. Good Luck :)
2006-10-29 02:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you jealous of? Sounds like she is great to be with! The other people around must be so jealous of you .....your the one she's going home with after the date.
2006-10-29 02:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be jealous of her....Just be happy with her as a friend and believe in yourself the way God made you..I don't know what you look like but I guess you think she is more hot than you so you are jealous of her....
2006-10-29 02:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋