every time i try to confront my inhibitions mentally, i stumble upon hundreds of potential reasons for their existence.. i fail to pinpoint the source of the problem. when i try to ignore the reason and just try to change the norm's i use, i become indifferent and bored.
logical thinking just brings me back to the starting point.
and trying to feel the solutions and the things i want cause tons of assumptions of 'why i want this or that' to come up. eventually i do nothing. wait for a change. stuck.
2006-10-29 01:19:56 · 6 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are over thinking everything. In fact if you think about something before doing it and that is all you do you will never actually find the time to get around to doing the thing you are thinking about! See how illogical that sounds? Now get yourself unstuck and if it is something you really feel passionately about and is something that will make your life better, do it! Good luck!
2006-10-29 01:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had given some examples of exactly what your inhibitions are it would be easier to answer. But primarily you should simply try not running from your inhibitions.Thats why most people fail to overcome them.
When they start trying to so called 'rationalize' they will always come up with some kind of reason for not following through. In fact this is also the reason people cannot get over their addictions. They will always try to distract their conscious mind away from the inner turmoil or angst by reaching for the addictive substance be it drugs,alcohol, tobacco or in the case of over 80% of the population food.
So try doing the opposite of what you have been doing.Instead of going along with your inhibitons try doing the opposite. For instance if you are shy of a certain situation then go out and put yourself in that situation purposely.You may be surprised at what happens. You will find that the thing you dreaded so much was nothing but a figment of your mind, a slight insecurity.
2006-10-29 02:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by librazone20002000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seek your purpose.
This is the reason why people ask what their purpose is in life.
Know your purpose, and everything will flow.
Some of my beliefs:
1) We are human. It is useless to fight against our natures that cannot be changed - therefore, we must work with our natures.
2) Embrace your emotions and how they affect your motives.
3) Read and meditate on spirituality.
Zen buddhism has plenty to do with understanding your inner workings and the understanding of truth. It just requires incredible effort and time.
Having said this, I am a new Christian. I seek purpose as well hehe..
Good luck.
2006-10-29 02:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by omgzorsscizzors 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courage and competitveness. You need to like to compete. Sure we all fail, yet if we win 30% of the time, we are ahead of the pack. Just make sure, however, when you compete you have a chance of winning what you want. If you try without much chance of success, you'll be stuck in the same rut you are in now, and your wheels will keep on spinning, going nowhere.
2006-10-29 01:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by mac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAve sound reasoning for your convictions, and then stick with them. sound reasoning is based on truth. Truth comes from God and is readily available in the bible and in good christian churches. seek out a pastor or counselor who can talk to you about these things. God is love and loves you, right now, and wants you to know Him in a personal, deep meaningful way. That is life fulfilling. That is satisfying.
2006-10-29 01:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by brilheaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking. Learn to quit your mind. Thinking too much will cripple ya so stop it
2006-10-29 01:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by crackleboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋