I met this woman 50 that has back problems and is broke.I went to her house and talked details?

Question

the next night she asked to rent a room in my house.I told her i was a welder and she said welders make good money.She demanded to come to my house and help me clean it up.I called her the next morning and said i did not want to get involved.She called and said she was hurt that i did not tell her the reason and said she was tooo pushy.She is very lonely and need a friend.We are both single.Would you get out of this situation or be her friend?

Answer 1

Well decide for yourself...what you wanna do...if you think you will not be able to help her much..then pls try to stay away...but if you really wanna help her then go ahead...but be cautious of her intentions.

Answer 2

Hello. nice question. Maybe you should take a moment and think what do you want from this relationship. take stock of what you are and what you have and the same for her.

You have a job, and a home. she does not. she wants to help you, but maybe you don't wan t the help.

I used to go out of my way to help lonley people. sometimes it worked, but often, there is a reason they are lonley. too pushy, to proud, to into themselves, too what ever. at 50 she is not gonna change. yeah, maybe change for little bit to get you to take her in, but not really become a diff. person.

do you care enough about her to take her in just the way she is.
if you honestly can't say yes, then tread carefully my friend.
Just because she is lonley, does not mean you have to be her savior. maybe she need sto get a job and a dog. dogs love you even if you are pushy.

peace out dude.

frankie c.

Answer 3

Sounds too needy and continueing the friendship will give her the fuel she needs to press even more for something you don't want. It will end eventually anyway...why not save yourself the aggravation and her pain, by ending it now.

I had a similar thing happen to me..... I tried the friendship thing....then I ended it when it was apparant friendship wouldn't work... it took me a year to get her to stop calling me...and stalking me etc. Ignoring her didn't help either.... It took her finding another poor guy to focus on....

Sounds like she is a victim and every man that enters her life will have to live with the ghosts of previous boyfriends/husband. Until she fixes herself... she will chase off every man she encounters.

Answer 4

Stay away from her. She has made her intentions clear. If she really has a bad back, why would she want to clean your house? Could this be a set up? You bet. Let's see...she will fall down, injure her back further, then sue you? Let her make other friends, and don't let her push you. This is one of the oldest tricks in the book! Open your eyes man!

Answer 5

Well even though you feel awkward around her, & might not be able to be her friend... Look for a friend for her! Maybe take her to a local church or something, where she could make some friends. That way yes, you're spending time with her (when you drive her to the places), but you don't have to spend so much time with her that you can't handel! Just try it, I have a hunch it will work! ~~GOOD LUCK!

Answer 6

Sounds like you and her were trying to begin more than a friendship at one time. Dont lead her on...be firm with your reasons not to be a friend to her. And then dont be a "friend"! Stand behind what you tell her.

Answer 7

It does sound like she is being pushy, but, maybe she is in a desperate situation. Think this over. Good Luck.

Answer 8

If you feel she is a clingy person she may be hard to get rid of when things don't work out. I say watch out.

Answer 9

I would probably be her friend but from a distance until I got to know her better.

Answer 10

RUUUUUNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

shes psycho, i have 2 friends who went thru the same. relationships lasted 4-5 yrs cause they would be battered/abused/belittled/threatened. that woman is crazy!!