first time i've ever experienced "terror" and panic in life, was when i got out of a relationship which was no good to me. ever since fear is all over my life, without any obvious reasons. right now i'm having the same problem, i'm engaged, i got into a big fight and i'm not sure what i'm doing with my life and if i have to keep the relationship. i'm facing the same fear all over and over again. is it me and the fact that i've still haven't figured out what i want out of life, or the others ? quote : i'm a person who wants other people and mostly my other half, to be like me:same thoughts, same behavior, everything. and when they are not it completely drives me mad. any advice ?
2006-10-28 20:43:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Expect less give more!
More expectations in any relationship will bring pain.
IF my doggy does whatever I tell him then he is a Good pet and I love him.....but if for some reasons he does not obey me...in that situation
a) if I continue to Love him my love is Love because its Unconditional
b)if I say that I don't love you b'cos U have not obeyed me, my love is just business.....you give and I give.Its not Love
IF ITS UNCONDITIONAL ITS LOVE ...ELSE ITS BUSINESS!
Its not possible for two different people to have same state of mind always, Pls learn to be patient to others differences.
Prayers do help... ... U can't change overnight...but even a journey of 10,000 steps has to begin with the first step and now!
2006-10-28 23:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Vijay God Loves U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, are you sure that you want to be in this current relationship, or are you on the rebound from your previous one? When you quoted that you want others to be the same as you, as they say everyone is different and we have to take the good with the bad. You may need some time away from your fiance to really think things through!!! Goodluck with your decisions.
2006-10-29 04:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by cashion_heather 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to forgive them and yourself, give it away. let go, somehow.you are all bottled up,you or holding on. not letting go. try reflexology treatments, it helped quite a bit after my wife and I broke up.or just a good massage. eat right. take a b vitamin complex. no sweets much. cut down on caffeine.face your fears . every time a fear comes in. face it, deal with it. fear can become a habit, do not reinforce it, let it go. I personally give my troubles to the spirit of god.You have to realize every one is different, and has a right to be that way.love yourself. and you will except others for what they are, and love them. love is the key. I wish you well.
2006-10-29 04:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to keep the relationship,I am sorry for your pain.
I have never experienced this terror so I really do not fully understand that.I think you need some alone time,discover what you really want ,Best of luck.
2006-10-29 04:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋