this guy and i knew eachother for 3 years (nothing romantic) then for no reason at all he just stopped calling and im ok with that but why couldnt he at least give me explanation or tell me he didint want to be friends any more? whats up with this?
2006-10-28 20:29:09 · 10 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i used to have a guy friend for a while. we went to high school together. our parents knew each other when we were babies. i ended up moving to another state and after i told him it took him a long time to even call me back. i was really upset about it. he apologized and everything. but we don't talk now. i think he liked me or something and that it bothered him that i was moving. i don't know. having friendship with a guy is different. you never know if you they are into you or not. he was a bigger guy too so I'm not sure how he felt about me. since we spent a lot of time together. but he knew that we were just friends. who knows. it is really rude of him not to talk to you or say anything and just ditch you like that. it sucks. but maybe he has a goof explanation. or maybe not. you have to go on with life and not let it get to you. don't take it personally. for whatever reason he felt that he couldn't end the friendship. find some better friends that are loyal to you and the friendship. not just when it's convenient for them.
2006-10-28 20:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't give a reason for the things they do. You just have to accept it and move on.
2006-10-29 04:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just a victim of circumstances and hadn't the chance to call you.
2006-10-29 02:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wanted more and didn't know how to deal with it...
maybe he was done with the relationship and didn't know how to deal with telling you... his method of departure is lame either way.
if the reason is not that important to you - no loss. if it is, track him down and ask him.
2006-10-29 02:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by PopcornMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's affecting you so much, maybe u shud give him a call instead.
2006-10-29 02:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by a_drop_of_inky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go find another guy. They're all the same.
2006-10-29 02:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cerulean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you left him and find new is better.
2006-10-29 02:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by mdo72000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont panic... guys are just really odd.
2006-10-29 02:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your overbearing
2006-10-29 02:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by axe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the american way
2006-10-29 02:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋