2006-10-28 20:24:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Visit your local planned parenthood and ask them about what sort of payment options you have and if you qualify for the funds out there to help women in this situation.
Don't listen to the people here who say 'adoption' instead. Obviously, you are choosing abortion for a reason. I chose it over adoption and I'm not unhappy. Don't listen to those who say that you should have the child as a punishment for sex. These people have warped veiws of sex thinking of it as something dirty or wrong and have even more warped veiws about who a child is. They don't care about children. Children should never be punishment. As I'm sure you know full well right now, abortion is a consequence on it's own with a set of responsibilities. Don't listen to those people who try to scare you away from abortion saying that it could cause your phsyical or psychological harm. While it's possible, did you know that your chances of complications (ie damage to your reproductive system, infection, death) is 10 times greater with full term pregnancy than abortion? And what about post partum depression with psychosis? Is this not harmful especially when it ends in suicide or even murder suicide of the kid and mom? Do what you know to be right given your situation. There are funds out there to help you. Ask around. There will be an answer.
2006-10-28 21:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you have to do to get the money Sell something. Get a job. Talk to a financial planner at planned parenthood. If they do abortions at your local hospital you might be able to get free care there. Return bottles for money if you have to. Borrow money from someone. Talk to your parents. Do whatever you have to do, because if you can't come up for the money for an abortion, you certainly can't afford a baby.
For all these people who are telling you to have the baby I think they should consider who would end up paying for your health care - them, the taxpayers! Having a baby is extremely expensive, and although i am not against welfare or free healthcare, there are already thousands of babies all over the world that need a home, and it is more responsible for you to not create another unwanted child when there are so many that are already here and in need.
2006-10-29 01:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Emily O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have the money for an abortion then you will have to have your baby.
Visit this website http://www.krch.com and read about the prices in this state
Good luck
2006-10-28 20:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT listen to the other people here: if you feel that you need to have an abortion, just go and have one. Do not let the trailer-trash idiots guilt you into having a child that you cannot take care of.
Abortion is your decision, and your decision alone.
I agree with the above poster who recommended the Planned Parenthood route. They can help you discuss your options.
2006-10-28 20:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by smeps 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
unfortunately i dont have an answer from you because you live in the States and I dont, but ignore the christian fundamentalists this site seems to attract on here and do whats best for you. I suggest following some of the more sensible suggestions on here, otherwise see if there is a womans organisation near you who may be able to guide you in the right direction.
Good luck.
(and to all of you Christian idiots on this place who go on about abortion being evil, i hope you burn in hell - not that that place even exists. Dont enforce your fairy tale beliefs on the rest of us)
2006-10-28 20:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Try to get medical from the state.. IF not, Then some places do payment plans. If not... Put the baby up to a family who can not conceive themselves. Good luck!!!
2006-10-28 20:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by KGcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are or your situation but, please don't have an abortion!!!!! There are so many people out there who are spending themselves into oblivion trying to get pregnant Or those who are desperate to have a child. Please rethink what you are doing. I'm sure you could find a loving couple to adopt your child and even pay for the medical expenses of your pregnancy. There are many agencies out there that can help you with this.
2006-10-28 20:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by lostandfound 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Have the baby and give it up for adoption. I'm sure ther is plenty of people out there trying to have a baby who can't conceive that would love to adopt your baby.
2006-10-29 11:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a nearby planned parenthood and try to ask for help! They will have some better suggestions than what you find here, and with a lot less judgement.
2006-10-28 20:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by akikaze 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well that's easy.....don't have one.
There's other ways of dealing with this other than.....(well, I don't want to offend anyone), so I'll just say your unborn baby has rights too. Please don't deny him/her of the right to live.
Talk it over with your family or your health care provider and find out what your options are. Adoption is one of course.....or maybe the father or another family member would like to help out....
I don't know.....but I do know you should think twice about letting the baby go....
Good luck ! !
and God bless you and your decision..
2006-10-28 20:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋