I'm 15. When I kiss my girlfriend I ussually put my hand in her pants or in her bra. But she seems to have a problem with that. Is she embarrassed, or just don't like it? It shouldn't be like that, cause I'm her boyfriend
2006-10-28 20:06:11 · 26 answers · asked by Voda Voda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dude, don't be doing that. She's too young and so are you.
What you're trying to do is very dangerous on several levels. I'm not only talking about sexual consequences either. Because if she was MY 15 year old daughter and I even dared to think you were trying this, you wouldn't be alive right now to ask this question!
2006-10-28 20:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Do You See What Happens Larry? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi buddy
this should not be the case you are right but the fact of life is girls are much maturer than guys in age and thinking. since you are 15 , i expect her to be between 13 and 15. Kiss her because she likes it but by putting your hand in the bra or panties might be making her feel that you are only interested in sex for which she must be feeling not ready to loose her virginity.
try this rather,,, stop putting the hand inside her pants and simply kiss after 2-3 times she will definetely feel this change in you and might ask on her own that she wants litttle more than that but if she does not still this means she is not yet ready for all that.
Give her time if she loves you she will do anything for you..patience is a great deal when it comes to being more intimate. Believe me wait for the day and she will be all yours. sometimes females look for LTR not just fun. It also seems she is trustworthy to you and all..
2006-10-29 09:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a girl and you are a male why is this question in the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered section? Anyways I am guessing she doesn't like this because she wants sweet intimate moments with you not sitting in the backseat of a car moments. Maybe you should try talking sweetly to her and just kissing for a while she will take the lead and let you know what she wants when she is ready. PATIENCE!!!
2006-10-28 20:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by girlinlove 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're right that it "shouldn't be like that, cause I'm her boyfriend." You should respect her, she doesn't owe you sex because you're "dating." If you want to have relations, and she wants to, then you will. If you want to, and she doesn't then you won't.
And if you don't learn this now, you will find it increasingly harder to get any sex as women don't like being made into human sex toys.
Think about it this way, if this girl kept trying to force you to do her homework for her, and gave you absolutely nothing in return, would you still date her? Probably not. Now think about it from her perspective. You want sex from her, but what are you offering her in return? Do you listen to what she wants, what she needs OTHER than sex?
If all you want from a girl is sex, then be honest about it and find a girl that just wants sex. Don't waste the time of girls that want real relationships.
2006-10-28 20:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tomis 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're moving to fast. You have to start out slow with carresses around the ears neck face and then move to the stomach and then just maybe, if she's into it, the intimate places.
It might just feel to her like you just want to feel her up and be a jerk. Talk to her about it. Make her feel special and that she has a voice.
Or usually touching intimate places constitutes that you want to have sex and she might not be ready yet.
If she'd insecure try teling her more often that she's beautiful and surprise her randomly with roses.
Also maybe she's not physically attracted to you. I really don't think there's a solution for that.
If you really like her, you won't need to touch her to be with her and be attracted to her. There are other ways to get closer to her. ie. talking, joking, doing random things, holding hands, watching movies, etc
2006-10-28 20:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by hotpockets122000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's already told you she doesn't like it, why are you still doing it? That's sexual assault, and it doesn't make any difference if she's your girlfriend or your bloody wife.
She should have dumped you the first time you touched her, if she didn't want it.
If you're horny, go and have a ****, then grow up and learn some respect for other people.
2006-10-29 00:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better stop the touching of the gals who don't want it or you'll be up on some rape charges.
Hope you carry condoms as well so you don't have a kid calling you papa at 16 years old and ruining your life.
2006-10-28 20:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't force her to do thing she don't like or don't want to although you are her boyfriend!this may be will scare her.in the other hand,you are 15 and so you girlfriend must be 15 or below 15,right?!so may be she was shame to do that or she was not use to it.just take your time and do not force her!
2006-10-28 20:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her yourself?
If she doesn't want you to touch her in those places, respect her wishes. Just because she's your girlfriend doesn't mean you own her body. If you keep on doing that when she clearly says "no", you are committing a crime. It's called assault.
2006-10-29 01:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being her bf doesn't give you the right to touch her, if she is uncomfortable back off!! shoving your hand at her **** and *** arnt gonna make her warm up to you any quicker. If you continue this behavior she will not be your gf long.... and if she were my daughter and i saw this youd have two broken arms.
2006-10-28 20:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋