Ex problems????why does he do this??
What does this mean????problems with an ex?
Why does he do this and whyat does it mean????
my ex broke up with me 8months ago and still trys to contact me when i tell him i dont want contact....why does he do this? does he still have feelings for me and is there a chance that we coud get back together?
i cant have contact with him if he wants it over and i have told him that but he still trys to contact me and says he wants to know if im ok
what does this mean???
he left me and even if i say dont contact me he turns yp a few weeks later just when i start to fell over him
2006-10-28 20:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try asking exactly what he wants, put it out there in the open and quit trying to play the guessing game. If you can trust him to provide you with an honest answer then maybe you are on the way to working it out. But is that what you want???
2006-10-28 20:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sound like one of my exes. The ex I was dealing with was keeping tabs because he is a control freak. Even though I had left him 3 times he still wanted that "contact" as a way of keeping some type of control over my life. This guy doesn't care, he just has some major issues. The next time he contacts you tell him that if he does it again you will get a restraining order against him. If he contacts you after that get the restraining order.
2006-10-29 02:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only say from my past experiences if he's recently broken up with someone he's probably coming back to you for the rebound. BUT he really doesn't want you back. Don't go back. Leave it alone and move on. He was taken out of your life for a reason.
Wish you the best of luck
2006-10-29 02:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Monkey. He doesn't want to let go of you in case he loses the other one. His decision, did it once, will likely do it again. He might be confused but that's no reason for you to suffer.
2006-10-29 02:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Rich B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not getting the hint and you REALLY don't want this guy around you, get a TRO (temporary restraining order). It's a bit drastic but it'll definitely send him the message.
2006-10-29 02:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Houjo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to get back together
2006-10-29 02:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask him what his motives are for contacting you and if they are not worthy tell him to stay away from you and not to call you. You could change your phone number.
2006-10-29 02:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are`big babies. They throw toys in tantrums and then they cry to have them back. I betcha that he misses you and could do anything to get you back, chances though are that if he walked away, he will walk away again...watch!
2006-10-29 02:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him not to contact you again.
He has repeatedly disrespected your wishes and contacted you anyway.
Two words for you: restraining order.
2006-10-29 02:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what his problem is and if he continues to contact you you will notify the police
2006-10-29 02:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋