It seems that even most black guys don't want black women anymore. I wonder how many white guys won't be with me because I'm not white. Although I consider myself mutli-cultural, still being anything but white seems to make you less than others.
I feel self conscious about the differences in my body such as certain parts... Some are bigger than whites and I wonder if that freaks a white guy out. The guys I have dated made fun of it, but didn't mind and my boyfriend now loves it. Anyway, just wondering how you feel. Be honest but be nice.
2006-10-28 19:43:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
If i met the right woman and she was black, sure Id be with her. Do i consciously look for only white woman to be in a relationship with as a tropical boy? no i do not.
Do i feel like integration between cultures seems a little bit more removed then I would like to see it? Yes I do. But I am willing to work on it if i could be with someone as charming and open and candid as you! :)
2006-10-28 20:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tropicalboy 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am white. I have had intimate relations with black women. All have claimed that white boys know how to 'lick' better. Most white guys, however, are hung up on the size of women.. I am not just talking about plump, but a lot of white guys have been so brain washed with the idea that an emaciated looking woman is the most desirable. Personally, I have noticed that those women that are not 'proportional' ( no matter what race) are better in bed. Our society says that white women are the most desirable, no matter what part of the world we are in. In the middle east, most men will go nuts for a fat white woman, and it seems to be a status symbol, especially if she is American. I have had intimacy with white, black, and Mexican women. I love Puerto Rican and Cuban women, and I melt in their hands.. My ex-wife is native American. Her butt was bigger, chest was small.
It does seem that up until recently, most black women had a hang up about dating anyone out side their race, but that is changing. The way I look at it, is why limit your life? But, then again, I am now married, and I do not fool around, no matter what the race.
2006-10-28 20:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-05 08:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure most guys would date a black women, just to test the waters. But the real question is how many would marry one. I know men who never thought that it would be a problem but when it came down to it, it was. Funny you mentioned black men not wanting black women, i have not noticed that much. What i have is noticed black women not wanting a black man. Most of the time because they don't want there children to be full black to make life easier for them, everyone loves the bi-racial children. I am married to a black women, who like you considers herself multi-racial because she is Haitian. I don't think it is hard, besides the crazy in-laws but that is with any marriage.
2006-10-28 20:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Brad25 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a Black woman at all, but if by some stretch of the imagination you are, why do you allow stereotypes and bs done in malice by others get to you and determine your negativity about yourself.
A strong Black woman would not be questioning something like this. If you are a Black woman then you are weak and should keep closed up in your closet as not to taint anyone else, you know?
But I don't believe you are a Black woman, but perhaps some scorned white boy who got played by a beautiful strong Black woman.
Personally, I don't put white women or any other race of woman other than Black on a pedestal. I am secure with myself and don't give in to all the bull crap in the world. If I did, I'd be crazy just like you and look to spread the illness as you have on this forum.
I am beautiful and Black (some mix too) but when you look at me you see darker skin. I love it...I love anyone who is decent and content with themselves...I make my own money and have a wonderful son...have been asked for my hand in marriage by many more white dudes than any other, and that sickens me. What I would love is a tall dark handsome man who is God-fearing and strong...as strong or stronger than me to pursue and win me over. Let's face it, white guys are a dime a dozen and easy to get.
Where are the winner guys? That's what I want to know...sighs...
2006-10-28 20:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by KimIsland 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
have only had a very few time when it might have been possable... but circomstances just did not work out... The few I have been close enough to,to concider, were very nice women... I would not have had any problem with whatever level the relationship developed into... there was one who I had some "coffee"time with and some very good conversation... But I was in the navy and our paths seperated... always have wondered...what if?... that was the 60s... a whole different time... but still... when a good one comes along ... oh yes...what if?
2006-10-28 19:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by IdahoMike 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
personally sweet I wish you didn't even have to ask this question. Any decent person will take you for who you are and not what colour you are.
Please don't be self conscious about certain parts of your body, DO YOU really want to have the same sort of body as someone else? Our differences are what make us unique and that is something every body should be proud of.
By the way if anyone says something about the way you look or what colour you are just tell "If you don't like it, don't look".
all the best xx
2006-10-28 20:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by the star fairy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I;m a white guy, and I only date white women, but it's a cultural thing. Doesn't have anything to do with looks
2006-10-29 00:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by lefty 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're completely blind or misinformed about what black men feel for black women. I hope the white boys tell you what you what to hear. I really don't know why either would be interested in you with any seriousness due to you low self esteem and obvious self loathing.
2006-10-28 22:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes i would totally date a black woman,or really any woman,lol,oddly im white but i dont think ive ever dated a woman that wasnt somehow multi-cultural,wierd i never really thought about it before,but ive never dated a black girl,although i find them attractive.the opportunity just has never been their i guess. from your picture i think your hot and i would totally date you,i mean no dis respect to your current bf
2006-10-28 19:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by seth s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋