We have no kids and she is still 293lbs. 5'3" ... After ten years I am still the same wieght and height when i graduated High School ... 5'8" 155lbs. (actually I am 5lbs less than high school) ... she just gives me excuse after excuse on why she is fat ...
I am thinking of kicking her to the curb and getting me a younger and skinnier woman ... what do you think?
2006-10-28 18:59:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, it would be better if she left you for a man....with some intelligence. Your an....IDIOT.
2006-10-28 19:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 14⤊ 4⤋
You know what just because your wife has gained weight since high school is no reason to look for a better model of a wife.What do you think she is a freakin' car or something?If you don't like the model you trade up for a better one.You sound like a SHALLOW JERK!!!!!Yes you heard me right i called you a jerk.Why did you marry her in the first place?Do you not love your wife?(cause to me you don't sound very loving or supportive)
Ever hear the wedding vows(you remember those,for richer,for poorer,in sickness and in health)Overeating is a sickness and she has to Want to do it herself,no one can force her not even you.You wanna know why she's fat....She's fat cause She Wants to Be!!!! She chooses what she eats and how she exercises..so that is why she's fat.What are you doing making her miserable about her weight,you know she'll just eat more.
As far as her always giving you excuses about why she's fat..Do you hound her all the time about her weight????Cause speaking from a fat girl's perspective when someone's always nagging you about it and is always on you about it ..it makes you eat more so if you think your helping her by bringing it up all the time.Your NOT!
I will say this usually theirs a reason a person is fat and overeats..Yeah some people just like food and they'll overindulge,but for others its kind of like stuffing their emotions.Instead of yelling at you when she's angry does she go find food and start eating whatever she can find?Food is a really good way a lot of people suppress there emotions no matter what they may be.
2006-10-28 19:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Leave her. She'll probably lose the weight after you leave. That always happens. Most people gain weight because they're miserable over something (i.e. unhappy marriage). It's just one of many coping mechanisms. You know your preferences, and if its not cutting it for you, be gone. Besides, men and women are supposed to at least try to keep up their appearances and spark in their marriage if they want to see it last. Unless its some sort of medical condition, you can say she's given up on trying to keep things interesting in your marriage. But please...can you try to be a little more sensitive about it??
2006-10-28 19:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What was it about your wife that made you married her? If you are not happy then why stayed with her this long? You know you're only burden yourself with her if you don't have feelings for her. Maybe it would be nice once in a while that you can help her and motivate her to lose weight. You can workout with her to gain strength and muscle mass while she can drop some pounds. Its really sad to see that you put up with a relationship knowing that you dont want to be in and will hurt her. How would you feel if your wife was the one who left you if you were about 300 lbs or so and she was thin. Isn't it terrible? You know, we're not made perfect. You married your wife because you're suppose to be her better half and support her. It goes both way not one way. Is looks everything? I'm sure your wife is a beautiful person in and out. And I'm hella sure that if you are willing to work with her and compromise and when you see her start to slim down, that could add some sparks to your love life. Nethertheless, no one should be put in this position of not being wanted because of their weight. Let her know that you care about her health and you want her to be healthy. Don't come at her and saying you have to lose weight b/c your fat. You know she will get defensive. I'm pretty sure if you tell her you love her and you want to work it out together then you will get what you want. And not only that, it will boost your wife self esteem up and make her keep herself looking good for herself and for you too. I hope that this helps and again, don't stay if u dont want too but yet again dont play with other peoples feeling. Think about this, what if you did leave your wife for a thinner lady then she becomes 300lbs. What are you gonna do? Leave her too? In this lifetime, you know what you have is good but then again don't screw up and go back to her once she loses weight as a way to get you back for leaving her.
2006-10-28 19:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by khmer_gurl_336 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How sad that You could go to another Persons question, that is so very serious, and put such a terrible answer. This isn't a joke. How coincidental that I had just finished reading Your poem..1982. Thought it was really nice. You see before I answered your question about your supposed wife, I like to go back and look at prior questions, to get the feel of a persons true self. Apparently You have no deeper side.
May God Bless You, and All that Have to Deal With You.
2006-10-28 19:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
A JERK is sarcastic, mean, unforgiving and never misses an opportunity to make a cutting remark. JERK's repulsive personality quickly alienates other people, and after some initial skirmishing he is usually ostracized. Still, JERK is very happy to participate in electronic forums because in cyberspace he is free to be himself...without the risk of getting a real-time punch in the mouth.
Don't be a JERK, try to be a MAN and love and respect your wife.
2006-10-28 19:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by diamond82 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
My wife is 5'3" and 270. She used to weigh 120. I like her fat. Maybe you should learn to enjoy her at her new weight? Check out http://fatgirlfriends.tripod.com and enjoy.
2006-10-29 14:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
congrats on winning the title of Mr. Shallow 2006.
2006-10-28 23:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by foghat77 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
asshole get of your butt and motivate her to exercise make it a couples work out and maybe when she starts to loose weight sex will get better. but you are just using her weight as and excuse to leave her u wanted out way at the beginning ..i wish u well cus that skinnybitch u want is gonna dog yourass out i hope you never get a injury and you get 300 lbs overweight an dis bed ridden. i bet pretty girl won't take care of u she'll do u just like Elaine did that man on Seinfeld and leave. Pretty skinny girls are only in it for themselves so good luck u beast
2006-10-28 19:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
wow...so..instead of just bashing her size..have you even tried to be nice...you sound like the kind of guy who has probably already fooled around . also...what was her weight in highschool...if she was a plus sized woman then....then you have changed your taste in women..also with the ten year.s..has she ever been pregnant and miscarried? or had any causes where she may develop depression?
2006-10-28 19:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
WELL HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY SHE IS OVER WEIGHT? IT IS PROBABLY BECAUSE SHE IS MARRIED TO A
L0***R.
MOST WOMEN LOSE WEIGHT AS SOON AS THEY DUMP THE J**K THEY ARE MARRIED TO.
AT 5'8 155LBS YOU SOUND LIKE A BEAN POLE.
I HAVE GAINED WEIGHT AFTER A BACK INJURY,MY HUSBAND SAID HE WAS THANKFUL FOR A WOMAN WHO LOVES HIM.ITS NOT ABOUT THE WEIGHT.
2006-10-28 19:12:17 · answer #11 · answered by funnana 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋