Okay, so I liked this guy for a really long time. I knew him from elementary school. Then, he went to a different middle school than me and everyone else in our grade. So, now I'm in 8th grade and I see him every April at our old elementary school, (it's like a after school thing once a year.) And I see him every July at the county fair. Before, when we went to school together. We always talked and we were comfortable being around eachother. Now, it's all akward and stuff... So I really want to go out with him. I think I love him, and I seriously cry about him sometimes. When we went to school together, he always asked out other girls, but never me. He knew that I liked him (really good friends I have!) But I knew that he liked me too. His friends told me. He's too shy to even talk to me, so I need to know what I should do, and, is anyone else going through anything like this, or is it just me? And don't tell me that I'm obsessing, or anything like that. Thanks! :)
2006-10-28 18:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by Stef 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am not reading all that...but you don't see a guy only twice a year move on....
2006-10-28 18:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin Federline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not the only one. I've been in the same situation. Much as it sucks, you really odd to let him go & just try to forget him. One reason is, you'll only be seeing eachother only twice a year! That's not much of a relationship...you wont be able to see eachother face to face, you wont be affecionate,& they'll be a lot of mistrust because of the whole distant thing & not knowing what he might be doing. Long relationships can't work...not when you hardly know the person. I can see a married couple who have been together for 20 years...but not this situation...I'm sorry...Another reason is, if he really cared for you & sapossobly liked you he wouldn't have asked out all of the other girls when he had the chance to be with you...by the looks of it, it doesn't seem like he's to interested. If he was so shy to ask you out, then why would he be asking out other chicks instead? Yea, puzzles don't fit there...So yea, FORGET 'EM GIRL! There's better out there, trust me!
2006-10-28 19:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Savanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are obsessing. Stop it.
If you see him twice a year at a social event he is an acquaintance nothing more. Boys are not very mature in the 8th grade. Use that information to figure out what to do.
2006-10-28 18:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 16:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by biedrzycki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very hard. If you think you mite love him. Then you do not. You are too young to be in love. Just enjoy your youth as long as you can. Mr. Right is out there looking for you. Good luck.
2006-10-28 18:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by jo_cage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go out with him twice a year and keep in touch the rest of the time.
2006-10-28 18:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can tell him u really like him and u want to go out with him. but ask him if he likes u first cuz then u will no rather or not to aske the ?. but i understand what u mean. it will be hard if u only c him evey so often but maybe u guys could figure something out!
2006-10-28 18:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u talk to the guy more then twice a year? but if u dont even talk to him then i dont think thats a really good relationship
2006-10-28 18:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Soccerchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exchange phone numbers, e-mail addresses, etc. Tell him that we should see each other more like inviting him to movies, eating together.
2006-10-28 18:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young for this!! 8th grade?
ehh who am i to say anything??
if you really think it's worth it, you can talk to him on the phone, online...
2006-10-28 18:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by short cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋