is this weird to u?

Question

i have this friend who i have known for 3 years and he calls me his best friend but he is really mean to me....
he never listens to my problems even though i have stayed up all night with him when he has had problems
he yells at me all of the time even when i havnt talked to him at all that day
he got mad at me when i was hurt in a car accident when it was his fault he rear ended some one
he never says i love u to me and that wouldnt bother me but he tells everyone else he loves them (he is gay by the way so we rnt dating) and yet he never tells his "best friend" i dont get it!
and he is all lovely to his other friend audrey when she has ditched him more times than i can count for her boyfriend!
is this normal?
and what should i do? i have tried talking to him about it but he just gets mad at me

he has only been like this the past few months............ and he isnt my only friend but i still dont want to lose him

Answer 1

Laura honey he's not your best friend.If he was he could tell you whats making him act so different.Leave him alone for a while and hang out with your other friends.

Answer 2

May-be he is just using you and the other people are the ones that he really cares about. I would let go this friendship since you are really being used. You should be able to see it!!!!
Tell him next time when he is in the need that you are not available only for his troubles in life and not to call back and yell to say that you were not available. In life if you let people mistreat you that means that you deserve it!! You are an adult and you can make a decision. The decision is to let go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Nobody should get treated in that way especially when you are a so called friend.
I understand that friends can be nervous at times and not treat you the best way but the then you need to say sorry and this should not become a habit!!!
Good Luck and remember he is using you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Your "friend" is narcissistic. Seriously, it's a personality disorder (mental disorder). He's keeping you around because you "feed" him. He needs to feel worshiped. You take his abuse and this makes him feel like you're his little pet. In exchange, you get to be his "friend". Look how well he treats those who are horrible to him! They actually get some respect. No, it's not normal; I'm pretty sure you know or you wouldn't ask... It's hard to let a friend go. But, you've got to do what's good for you. :-) You ARE a great friend and others are out there who would cherish you for being so sweet.

Answer 4

Gay or not, this guy has no respect for friendship. I would be very, very busy the next time he "needs a friend"... and all times after that. He sounds like a jerk...not worth your defenses. You sound like a nice person with a big heart...go make friends with someone of the same caliber.

Answer 5

Sounds like you are more of a sister to him than a best friend! Treat him like you would your brother I guess! One of the attractions of a gay friend can be how quirky they are..but also a pain!

Answer 6

this is not normal and if he won't talk to u go and get a new friend. he might have some problems. thats maybe wats wrong with him and the hint is he gets mad at u eve nif u didn't even talk to him.

Answer 7

Do you know what, he is not your best friend. He is using you. Get some new and real friends.

Answer 8

not weird sounds like he is just an ***hole stop being so nice to him and get rid of him as a friend a true friend wouldn't treat you like that

Answer 9

YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR SELF A NEW FRIEND, BECAUSE
HE NOT ONE. AND AFTER 3 YEARS, I WOULD HAVE BEEN
GONE. IF YOU HAVE TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS, THEN IT'TIME
TO MOVE ON. A FRIEND IS SOMEONE THAT THERE FOR
YOU AND ETC. HE NOT A FRIEND.

Answer 10

would you treat a friend this way
the golden rule
"Do unto others, as you would have them,
Do unto you".

don't accept treatment you don't give.
one way giving in relationships, is not friendship,
it's abuse!