My boyfriend went on a business trip for two weeks and went to a weekend trip to meet up with his two girl friends - one he hasn't seen in years and the other one is his ex-ex girlfriend. I know he is a good person, and I know he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. But I thought I was going to be okay with it and now I am pretty jealous especially since he hasn't called me when he arrived at his destination after telling him to call me as soon as he gets there. He didn't call me, so I called him and he was meeting up with the two girls at a dance club.
I do feel bad b/c I got upset and hung up the phone and yelled at him.
2006-10-28 18:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by Rosseau 2 in Dining Out ➔ United States ➔ San Francisco
I can sort of relate, except I was out of town with family and my boyfriend had a chick friend of his stay over at the house for a couple days because she needed some help with a personal matter...the only thing was that they had planned it and I didn't become aware of it until I got back from my trip. Any situation like this brings about uneasy feelings no matter what. However, your boyfriend let you know straight up, which shows honesty and respect for you. He's not trying to hide anything, you gotta give him credit for that. Just let him know how you are feeling and how he could possibly help you out. Ex.-Emphasize to him the importance of calling you when he says he will and let him know that simple actions like that would make you feel much better. And if you do appreciate his overall honesty, let him know- it'll make both you and him feel good. Good luck!
2006-10-28 18:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about hanging up on him. First of all, he knew and told you that he was going to be with these women. This would be the first sign to him to call you in order to let you know that everything is "okay" and his ex-girlfriends are just that "ex".
Where is his brain? Obviously in his ***. Don't call him again. When he returns (if he doesn't call you during his so-called business trip) expect the worse and hope for the best.
His first concern should be for you and your feelings. Obviously he doesn't feel the same way. Keep on yelling!! Then when he comes home, you go off on a little trip (without him) and enjoy.
2006-10-28 18:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by lovetofly46 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugh i hate these situations. Just try and keep yourself busy. That would be bothersome if he didn't call you when he said he would... especially if he is meeting with two girls. I would apologize for yelling at him but tell him you are just feeling a little uncomfortable due to the situation and you lost it. Reassure yourself asking him how it is going and making sure everything is strictly friendly and nothing more. Then go get a Mani/pedi or something for yourself. hope this helps, i am no relationship specialist ha ha whatever you do dont let him make you feel bad for being a bit jealous... then hes an *** hole
2006-10-28 18:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by ImaLittlebitRock 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's very selfish. It's ok to take a weekend off after a 2-week business trip but it's not ok to meet up with 2 ex-girlfriends. He needs to understand that you're upset. I don't think he'd be too happy if you did the same thing.
2006-10-28 18:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by TonyB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is this in the San Francisco Dining section?
The guy is up to something. It would be great if you could trust him, but meeting those two girls and not calling you, means his mind was somewhere else.
I hate to say it, but it sounds like he's having a great threesome right now.
And as a guy, I have to say, when we go meet up with another girl, there's a good chance that we're NOT going to bang her. But the situation here as presented is suspect.
2006-10-28 21:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by IceTrojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going out with both of them at the same place and same night?. Sounds pretty safe to me. And he told you about it before hand? Chill out. Go see a movie with your friends. Apologize to him when he gets back or if he calls. Don't let him think that you are so insecure that this would bother you. After all they are his EX-girl friends.
2006-10-28 18:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahaha, Play the same game girl, When he calls, change the message on ur voicemail first, "Hi Everyone, Cant come to the phone right now, B/F's outa town and girls will be girls, Try me back in a few days"
2006-10-28 18:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-28 18:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wake Up! this guy does not give a dam about your feelings! move on and stop being a door mat! and don't apologize for yelling at him, let him know what a *** hole he is!
2006-10-28 18:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Dolly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel hurt! If he was going to do that, I'd arrange time off to be able to join them all and have a vacation myself! It sounds dodgy to me too.
2006-10-29 04:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋