My boyfriend went on a business trip for two weeks and went to a weekend trip to meet up with his two girl friends - one he hasn't seen in years and the other one is his ex-ex girlfriend. I know he is a good person, and I know he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. But I thought I was going to be okay with it and now I am pretty jealous especially since he hasn't called me when he arrived at his destination after telling him to call me as soon as he gets there. He didn't call me, so I called him and he was meeting up with the two girls at a dance club.
I do feel bad b/c I got upset and hung up the phone and yelled at him.
2006-10-28 18:01:18 · 4 answers · asked by Rosseau 2 in Sports ➔ Baseball
Sorry guys - I guess I needed a man's advice. ;)
2006-10-28 18:09:59 · update #1
No problem, jealously is an evil green monster
2006-10-29 01:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky Lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the one who's yelling and angry is not a good spot to be in. That does no good. You just have to let him get past this. There is a reason why he needs to see them, and it has nothing to do with you.
If the two of you are meant to be together, he will return to you more convinced of it then ever. If not, then you can't change that by being angry.
Wait and see what happens when he gets back, and then you will have the answer to your question.
In the meantime...Chill. Go to a movie with some friends; go to the mall and shop. Do something that you really are interested in and enjoy without him, so that you will have something interesting to tell him about yourself when he gets back. Don't just sit around stewing in your anger.
If you do that, you will not be attractive when he sees you next time.
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2006-10-29 01:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would probably get better answers if you posted this in the divorce section, not the baseball section.
2006-10-29 01:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
bad idea to yell....just motivates him to do worst things...if he is selfish like this....maybe its time to split.
2006-10-29 01:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by BLAZER-HM147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋