i want to tell my parents in a way but i also dont want them freaking out about it... i just want to tell my mom so she can put my on BC if i decide to do it again
2006-10-28 16:36:41 · 20 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am only 16... i want to tell my parents in a way but i also dont want them freaking out about it... i just want to tell my mom so she can put my on BC if i decide to do it again
2006-10-29 04:24:20 · update #1
don't ask/don't tell.
I would keep this to yourself.
2006-10-28 16:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by daniswired 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you are mature enough to have sex, you need to be mature enough to talk with your parents. They probably don't want to be raising any new children, so they need to make sure you are informed and protected.
I hope my kids will be able to tell me. It is a very natural part of life, but you really have to be careful nowadays. Too many diseases and too many unwanted babies.
Approach it maturely, (although I'm hoping you are at least 16) and hopefully they will be equally as mature. What's done is done, you can't get your virginity back, so know is the time for patience, understanding, education and love, more than ever.
Good luck ,sweetheart. And remember don't give it up just 'cause you think it will keep the guy closer. It never works. Teenage boys are sweet but they are governed by their "other brain". They will never be as responsible for protection as you will have to be.
Pregnancy, AIDS, STDs, are all very real!
Be careful!
2006-10-28 16:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by ilovedefault 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well its up to you really.I wouldnt tell my parents but thats me!The best thing to do is tell your mother first,sit her down and tell her how hard it is for you to open up and tell her something this personal.She will thank you for not keeping it a secret from her.
Your dad on the other hand is a different story all together!!!
If you feel like you cant tell him dont!Dads are very protective and worry about this kind of stuff so i think its best to wait awhile!Good luck.(",)
2006-10-29 01:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by ms.biatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe say mom i want to tell u something dont freak out and dont be mad i made a mistake i had sex and i am no longer a virgin i feel awful im so srry
2006-10-29 01:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel as if you need to tell your parents that?
Go to your local health department and you can get on BC pills without your parents finding out.
2006-10-28 16:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Two words....Planned Parenthood. You can get the piil through them without your parnets knowing. Or, you can do it a couple of times more and give them a grandchild.
2006-10-28 16:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. They're your parents; they should understand. Don't wait until you are pregnant like the other girl did.
2006-10-28 16:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont mean to be rude but u shouldve known that if u were gonna do this then u had to be prepared to tell ur parents. but i suggest that u tell ur mom first cause they are more understanding.
2006-10-28 16:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG!U desire YOUR HAIR PULLED!!!!FIRST OF U SHOULDNT BE HAVING intercourse! BUTT to tell THEM tell THEM THAT U AND UR BF are transforming into incredibly close AND ARE SEROUSE IN LOVE.and that u felt delicate having intercourse so u did..then see what they tell u.
2016-10-16 12:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm yea i couldnt tell ya lol maybe i should practice and follow what your tryin to do cuz i havent told em yet either
2006-10-28 16:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't, go to a health clinic they give it to you for free, they prefer not to know anyway, they like to think ur a virgin until your married even if they know your not
2006-10-28 16:39:11 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋