ex problems????why does he do this??

Question

What does this mean????problems with an ex?
Why does he do this and whyat does it mean????
my ex broke up with me 8months ago and still trys to contact me when i tell him i dont want contact....why does he do this? does he still have feelings for me and is there a chance that we coud get back together?

i cant have contact with him if he wants it over and i have told him that but he still trys to contact me and says he wants to know if im ok

what does this mean???
he left me and even if i say dont contact me he turns yp a few weeks later just when i start to fell over him

Answer 1

Take inventory of your relationship. Why did He break up with You? Was He controlling in the past? Was He always honest with You. Was He always where He said He would be? Did He take off and not tell You where He was going, and stay gone for long periods of times? Does He abuse alcohol, or drugs? Does He not like You out of His sight? Does He approve of Your Friends? Those are all danger signs.

Now, sometimes People don't want Someone, but They CAN NOT STAND Anyone else being with Them. If He is so unpredictable now, how will He be later? Sounds like He is messing with Your head, and Your heart. You do not need that in Your life. And You certainly do not need to be tied down to a relationship like that indefinitely. You have to do what is best for You. Remember, He dumped You. You know what kind of Person You are, and that You deserve better. How do You know if You open Your heart up to Him again, that He won't, in time, do the same thing? Hold Your head up, and move on. For Your own good. Tell Him that He had His chance, and He passed on it, tell Him that ship has sailed.

Be Careful, and Best Wishes.

Light In The Darkness

Answer 2

Your ex might have regrets for what he did, but you're right if he wanted it to be over then he needs to move on with his life. Your ex has a problem with the choice he made and he's the one who decided to end things, but you seemed to have moved on and is over him. Like one poster wrote some exes absolutely can't stand to see their past boyfriend or girlfriend with someone else. My own ex is like this he got mad the last time he called me and had the nerve to get an attitude when he asked me if I was dating anyone and the minute I said I was in love with someone he got quiet. Some people are controlling and posessive and you have to be careful because some people let their feelings get the best of them and cause all kinds of problems. If he keeps calling don't answer him because possessive and jealous exes look for every chance to keep you talking and by not answering you're letting him know what his choice brought to the table.

Answer 3

I would change my number, since he does'nt get the message. Just continue to ignore him and he will stop. The last resort is geting the police involved.

Answer 4

tell him that u r not interesting in startin gup again and if he keeps it up you'll call his parents, or police - what u r discribing is a stalker and whould be treated as such before you end up physically harmed (which is how it ends).

Answer 5

it means he still has feelings for you and hopes that you do for him you could either get back together with him or tell him you have no interest anymore its pretty simple

Answer 6

Maybe he sorted out hiz feelins and realized he's still n luv wit u.

Answer 7

sounds like u neither one r over the other

Answer 8

sounds like he wants you back.. next question is do you want him back

Answer 9

He wants you.

Answer 10

block his phone call ignore him and move on