Do you agree with my accessment of life in the USA for the AmericanBorn Chinese Male?

Question

The reason that life sucks for the AmericanBorn Chinese Male living in the USA is the following:
1. pretty asian women likes white guys, not chinese guys
2. pretty asian women likes white guys due to media influences that white is good and masculine, and that chinese male is bad and feminine
3. even though chinese males get high marks in academic life, it does not translate into to the best jobs in management and CPA firms because of lack of acceptance of social skills and attitudes as seen by the white corporate structure
4. white college students go threw college having a good time partying, drinking, going on spring break, cheat on exams, and just enjoying a great social life, and at the end do get a good job regardless of what grades they show. On the other hand, Chinese males get better academic marks from hard work, little to no parties, and little social life relatively speaking, and don't get great jobs. The list continues but no more space to write.

Answer 1

Yes that's true. But point 1 and 2 mostly for greencard.

Answer 2

Forget the CPA firms then. You need to find something in the private sector, try non-profit, even if entry level. Why would you want to make partner in a firm if that's the norm?
Who cares what you "think" certain races like. Quit worrying about it and you'll find the right person.
Who cares what the with guys did in college. If they are truly goof offs they'll be caught for their lack of ability later. Don't care who they know. What goes around comes around.
I feel for you Curious. Your anger is getting the best of you, and it shouldn't. Whether you believe me or not, I will say a prayer for you. Peace sir.

Answer 3

Well, you're asking Asian women to do something you're not willing to do. You want them to choose you because you're a superior person (better grades, smarter, more reliable, etc.) BUT "pretty Asian women" that's sorta superficial isn't it. Do what you preach. Look inside the person. There may be an absolutely awesome catch out there who would adore you and be everything you could possibly want, but she's not a model.
as for jobs there are two possible problems (1) you radiate attitude, and a prospective employer will avoid that at all costs. They detect that you may have a chip on your shoulder-"you're not going to hire me because I'm not white" I can tell you from 40 years in management and ownership of companies that the first objective is to get the most bang for the buck-smart/sincere/and leaves me with a good impression of the person. or (2) you're applying for jobs for which you are not qualified. In the current market of specialization and this is especially true of technical fields. sales for example will hire anyone (degree not as important) but a civil engineer would have a hard time doing a petroleum engineer's job.

in other words, maybe you need an attitude adjustment.

Answer 4

i agree with you