Why does a woman act offended when?

Question

When she is well endowed and wearing a top that's very revealing showing alot of cleavage and gets upset when she catches a guy staring at the twins. What do you expect a man to do. Everyone knows men are more visual and women are more sensual, but if a man was well endowed and wore pants that really showed it off, I guarantee you women would be staring the same. But, women are better at staring than men.

Answer 1

Women wouldn't stare at a man with 'BIG' pants..because they just aren't wired that way. They might give a casual glance but nothing more. As for a woman being offended by you ogling her chest..it depends..did you firmly implant your nose between them or was it just a casual glance? and furthermore..had she been wearing a turtleneck does that mean you would not have noticed she had a large chest? I highly doubt it..men look regardless of the attire...I have to say though, if you choose to put it out there on the shelf why gripe when people look at the display?......

Answer 2

It's not the looking that's the problem. It's the exclusion of the rest of the person invovled that's the problem. Sure, look. Look more than once. But realize that the woman isn't her cleavage. Look into her eyes. Carry on a conversation with her, not her chest. You want to know why she's upset? It's because you've turned her into a body part by staring. There's more to the package, you know, and the only way you can prove that you're aware of that is by looking her in the face, where it matters.

It's not like this kind of thing is rocket science. Jeez.

Answer 3

I can only guess at what my well endowed sisters are thinking and feeling. Perhaps it is the fault of both parties. This is a game where the rules are changed often and on a whim. I saw that a young man was looking at all the ladies' derrieres, but, he was intently gazing at them through a mirror in a jewelry department. That was pretty smart.

Answer 4

Some women who are well endowed wear the plunging neckline because it gives them a sort of feeling of self-confidence, but when the WRONG guy looks at the twins they get upset.

Answer 5

Good point.
When I flaunt my breasts in such a way it is in hopes of such attention. However I have found that sometimes I feel I have gotten in too deep by doing so.
In other words, I want attention but don't want attention. That's a woman.
We don't act that way on purpose. If we acted too predictable and consistent you men will go searching for excitement from some other woman. I think it might be a tease motivated by a competition thing.

Answer 6

Basically the woman knows the man is looking and likes the attention. And when a woman dresses like that, its on purpose. She knows men are going to look at her and she acts surprised but shes really not, its only for attention.

Answer 7

If she dresses like that then she should expect men to admire the 'twins'. Maybe the guys should be a little more discreet and not make it so obvious that they are staring.

Answer 8

Shes putting on an act. She likes to show them, but doesnt want to catch anyone looking. Its HER fault that shes advertising them, but dont dare let her catch you.

Its a mental thing if you ask me....Shes fake in some way.

Answer 9

Im still waiting for "Understanding Women for Dummies" book to come out myself. If theyre showing off then Im looking - I just dont drool.

Answer 10

i am guilty of doing that very same thing. Now that i am older and wiser i see that i did that because i felt thats all i had to offer a man yet in reality we want to be noticed for who we are inside its just part of growing up.